Don't
sugarcoat the situation. If you're seeing someone else, tell them
you're seeing someone else. My little sister broke up with a live-in
boyfriend because she kissed another guy during a business trip. She
told her boyfriend the deal -- it made it more concrete. Avoid cliche's
like "I love you, I'm just not in love with you." Guys don't understand
this stuff. If you've lost feelings for them, just say it. They can't
argue with that. And avoid covering up -- "I just can't be in a
relationship right now." Sure you can -- if you were still really into
him, you'd be in a relationship with him.
Honesty will protect you in the long
run, because the truth comes out
eventually.
Honesty will protect you in the long
run, because the truth comes out
eventually.
