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POPSCan You Meet Me For Coffee, Sugar? Ok, this is a problem for me all the time. I came out to one of my sweetest friends in the whole world who I absolutely adore and she said "You mean you've been bisexual all this time and you NEVER once hit on me when we grew up together and we had sleepovers; weren't you attracted to me?" Now, I knew she was just joking, but there is no good answer to that question. It is a lose, lose situation. If you admit attraction, it may freak her out. If you say she isn't your type, she may be offended and embarrassed. You cannot win this one. Don't try. And I've had some curious friends say "If you don't mind me asking, how do two women have sex together; I mean something is OBVIOUSLY missing. *LOL* missing for them, but not for me. I think straight women sometimes think, OMG! Why is she telling me this? and I try to explain that the reason is because I cannot continue our friendship with such a deep dishonesty on this level by not saying who I really am :)