"If a man is compelled to use a prostitute because it makes him feel free of guilt, responsibility, and worry, then those feelings must be a special burden to him. Such men feel psychically weighed down by the belief that they're supposed to take care of women, that they have an obligation to make women happy, to please them. Such beliefs are often exaggerated and based on a belief and perception that women are high-maintenance, helpless, or disposed to be unhappy and dissatisfied.

These beliefs are formed in childhood and are reinforced by our culture. They are often false, but they can inhibit such men in their sexual relationships. In real relationships, they feel that there is always a...

"If a man is compelled to use a prostitute because it makes him feel free of guilt, responsibility, and worry, then those feelings must be a special burden to him. Such men feel psychically weighed down by the belief that they're supposed to take care of women, that they have an obligation to make women happy, to please them. Such beliefs are often exaggerated and based on a belief and perception that women are high-maintenance, helpless, or disposed to be unhappy and dissatisfied.

These beliefs are formed in childhood and are reinforced by our culture. They are often false, but they can inhibit such men in their sexual relationships. In real relationships, they feel that there is always a hidden quid pro quo, that they can't get much unless they give a lot, that they have to pay a high price for getting what they need. Of course, intimate relationships then suffer.

For these men, a prostitute is sought as a relationship in which the man can "let go" and freely express his most selfish desires without feeling guilty and worried about the effect of these desires on his partner.
...AlerNet

"For male politicians, these issues are likely heightened. It is argued that they're accustomed to wielding power, using others and expecting others to serve their narcissistic needs. But in the quid pro quo world in which politicians live, no one gives anything without expecting something back. Everybody wants a piece of them. In the healthiest cases, they can be themselves at home with their families, feel loved without conditions. But too often their marriages and family lives have taken a backseat to their careers and no longer function as havens of reciprocity, connection, and love.

With a prostitute, the arrangement is also instrumental, but during the time that he is with her, the po...

"For male politicians, these issues are likely heightened. It is argued that they're accustomed to wielding power, using others and expecting others to serve their narcissistic needs. But in the quid pro quo world in which politicians live, no one gives anything without expecting something back. Everybody wants a piece of them. In the healthiest cases, they can be themselves at home with their families, feel loved without conditions. But too often their marriages and family lives have taken a backseat to their careers and no longer function as havens of reciprocity, connection, and love.

With a prostitute, the arrangement is also instrumental, but during the time that he is with her, the politician can enjoy the fantasy that he doesn't need to do anything for anyone. Spitzer paid for his time in advance. When he entered the door of that hotel room, he and "Kristen" enacted a fantasy in which, whatever its sexual specifics, his immediate pleasure was her sole aim, an aim that she appeared to pursue happily and with abandon.
...AlterNet

In my opinion, men and women are different in fundamental ways that no amount of socialization etc can alter or deny.

As quick evidence I want to cite an unbiased 'experiment' that strikes at the core of human sexuality. It is unbiased because it is not a planned 'experiment', it is simply real life.

The subjects are gay men and lesbian women.
The result shows that in general, men are tramps and women are more relationship centered. It is not an accident that aides spread so rapidly in the male community. It would have spread just as fast in the heterosexual community if women were as naturally promiscuous as males.
This is not a question of morality; it is a matter of biology.
The job of...

In my opinion, men and women are different in fundamental ways that no amount of socialization etc can alter or deny.

As quick evidence I want to cite an unbiased 'experiment' that strikes at the core of human sexuality. It is unbiased because it is not a planned 'experiment', it is simply real life.

The subjects are gay men and lesbian women.
The result shows that in general, men are tramps and women are more relationship centered. It is not an accident that aides spread so rapidly in the male community. It would have spread just as fast in the heterosexual community if women were as naturally promiscuous as males.
This is not a question of morality; it is a matter of biology.
The job of morality and law is to function within the biological framework as best as possible.