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6-18-2007 7:14 AM
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Interesting read, particularly for those who are interested in studying adolescence.
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6-18-2007 7:21 AM
mona
true - ask any teenager and sure enough they'll confirm that there is absolutely nothing they don't know!

seriously though, i really believe this is true - the argument that restrictions limit actual capacity makes perfect sense to me!
6-18-2007 7:23 AM
cementedminds
Indeed - that's my thinking too.
6-18-2007 8:08 AM
duvelic
This is unequivocal truth!
The whole culture collaborates in artificially extending childhood, primarily through the school system and restrictions on labor. ... We have completely isolated young people from adults and created a peer culture. We stick them in school and keep them from working in any meaningful way, and if they do something wrong we put them in a pen with other "children."
This is one of many aspects of how sense of reality is terribly blurred in western society. There are also very sinister roots: it is suitable for some forces (political, religious, commercial) that people are growing up late artificially (with all accompanied problems), because this weakens ...
6-18-2007 8:37 AM
wiccantexan
And we treat them like children for a much longer period. Lindsay Lohan, "she's a child!" by Mom. Ashton Kruchton, at 25 dating Demi, "she's a cradle-robber!" My gods, he was 5 years short of 30, a grown man.

When do we stop treating them like idiot children?
6-18-2007 4:40 PM
sohil
Ya!
6-25-2007 4:05 AM
allenmarkowski
Excellent article. It expresses a lot of thoughts I had as a teenager growing up in the 60s & I can truly say I resented it at the time. "Let's see, I'm not old enough, to smoke, drink or vote but I can be forced against my inner morale nature to to murder, compromise by doing something else for the military(You don't have to pull the trigger just drive the getaway car/ambulance.), go to prison or flee the country." I have an 11 year old boy I'm raising & I must say, we have a very good relationship going. I've tried very hard to let him know he is intelligent & his thoughts & feelings matter to me. When we have disagreements I'll often ask him, "How can we make this a win win situation?...
7-1-2007 9:05 PM
BigBadWolf
Some children do NOT respond well to allowances and flexibility. It only creates more of the "I am entitled" psychological frame of mind. I FIRMLY believe that if a child has the capacity to understand circumstances, then by all means, allow them to learn their life lessons the hard way.
7-1-2007 9:30 PM
willhelm
30 is new 18.
7-3-2007 9:53 AM
wiccantexan
30 is new 18.
I'd be LOL if it wasn't so close to the truth.
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