Happiness will never be tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes. The simple question remains What is it about tomorrow that means I can be happier than I am today? The difference can be as simple as a point of view. The future is beyond our sight and we are not prophets, very often disappointed optimists. We can be happy with what we've got, because we have so much.
Having been is hospital a bit people go on as though it is a trial, but whenever I've been there, no matter how bad I've been, there have been many other people who would put what I would call pain and suffering in the shade. There are things that seem far worse than death, which we generally bring upon ourselves, but when people are told...

Happiness will never be tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes. The simple question remains What is it about tomorrow that means I can be happier than I am today? The difference can be as simple as a point of view. The future is beyond our sight and we are not prophets, very often disappointed optimists. We can be happy with what we've got, because we have so much.
Having been is hospital a bit people go on as though it is a trial, but whenever I've been there, no matter how bad I've been, there have been many other people who would put what I would call pain and suffering in the shade. There are things that seem far worse than death, which we generally bring upon ourselves, but when people are told they have a terminal disease. it can clear their mind in a remarkable way. There can be personal dissatisfaction which is pointless, but there can also be the idea of being unhappy when looking for an answer, which is relieved when it is found. One of the foundations of progress. There is the search for an answer that is not there, but that is the motive to look somewhere else. Another thing I'm regularly reminded that everyone should remember.
Sure I've got a 'tragic' story.
Everyones got a 'tragic' story
They're bad conversation pieces. People want to hear how the 'tragedy' was overcome. That can't be done by anyone but the person telling the story. There is no point is concentrating on what we don't have, because when we do, we forget what we have.

Constant blaming, bitching, complaining and not taking responsibility
for our own lives and predicaments, to the point where we have to over
dramatize, distort and deceive in order to make "points" to diminish,
demean, and accuse others without real facts, is really a blockage to
our OWN happiness. Especially when we operate behind a facade of
brotherly caring and "humanitarian" concerns but seething anger and
ugliness is what truly lies behind.

If you are speaking about one who uses their own unhappiness to personally attack others then of course I would agree with you Davoz. If you are speaking about those who speak out against injustice then I could see why you are offe...

Constant blaming, bitching, complaining and not taking responsibility
for our own lives and predicaments, to the point where we have to over
dramatize, distort and deceive in order to make "points" to diminish,
demean, and accuse others without real facts, is really a blockage to
our OWN happiness. Especially when we operate behind a facade of
brotherly caring and "humanitarian" concerns but seething anger and
ugliness is what truly lies behind.

If you are speaking about one who uses their own unhappiness to personally attack others then of course I would agree with you Davoz. If you are speaking about those who speak out against injustice then I could see why you are offended. A passion for justice often offends. Justice asks why there are so many victims and seeks to change the causes of victimization, that is the way the system is structured. Charity never ofends but a passion for justice often does.