Wow, I couldn't disagree with that article more strongly.

If your current relationship isn't working, the honorable, ethical thing to do is end it before starting another one. Don't go blaming your spouse for "pushing" you into someone else's arms. You made the choice to sleep with somebody other than your spouse; you need to take responsibility for that.

If you push someone enough, it shouldn't be any surprise when you push him into the arms of someone else.

One thing it would benefit that blogger to learn is that some people react to a perceived problem by blaming the person who reveals to them their own discontent. If they would look inside, the discontent resides there, as does responsibility for one's actions, always. One could say his laziness made her bitchy, which made him cheat, but that would be completely false and would potentially doom people to repeating their past mistakes rather than fixing their inner discontent.

YEAH!!

Sex tends to be more of an emotional issue for women and more of a physical issue for men and by that I mean I think men in relationships relate more to love through sex and that is a measure of your love for them.

@ deb2012 I don't think you could call the husband Jon in that show lazy. He does have a full-time job outside the home, and when he is home or on an outing with the family she makes him work and he does what she asks (?) willingly.This in no way justifies him cheating on her though.

I think they need to get off the air and work on their differences for all those kids! Cheating solves nothing.