How many of them said that this is absurd and fairy tale for supporting obscure influence at lost people? C-mon, it's 21st century. Third Millenium. Nanotechnology, "in vitro" grown individual's own organs (to fix unhealed heart wounds), lethal drones and iPhones! Couple thousands years aren't enough?
Most people have common sense and using churches as community places; rituals of wedding, funeral or baptizing developed during whole history of humankind and become parts of our life. We can listen sermons and project their sentences on our troubles. At our own will. But church of modern time cannot be abusive and aggressive, they have to follow their own postulates of patience, tolerance and obedience.