Power of Negative Thinking?


	Power of Negative Thinking?

vienova4

7-9-2009 12:40 AM

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mental health, mindfulness, therapy, self-esteem

vienova4 says:

An interesting article that reflects a basis premise of mindfulness and other modern therapeutic approaches: the more we fight the demon, the bigger it becomes. So let's just sit with it, instead of acting on the urge to confront, challenge, and change it.

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