So, I guess it goes without saying that if you devote every last bit of your life to your work for 40 years (過労死ぽっくない！？) That you shouldn't be surprised when one day you come home and your wife has replaced you with some sort of wet blanket collection that would make even Imelda Marcos blush.

Japanese guys out there (and others) : こんなに仕事無理しちゃだめよ！飲み会とかそんなに行かないでね。いつか早く帰ってみて、奥さんとゆっくり時間すごせば、幸せになるよ。風俗より、奥さんとセックス楽しんでみてね、奥さんといろいろと楽しめば、こういうのは無可能性だよ。

That said, while I'm incline to think this guy is overstating things, honestly I've run into too many desperate housewives in Japan - and I was just trying to Teach English jeez!