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7-9-2009 7:25 PM
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Antara says:
if you already know what "man love Thursdays" are, this article won't surprise you

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7-9-2009 8:50 PM
debbyski
I really shouldn't even comment about such a repressed regime.

I don't think it's about homosexuality as it is about power and control, just like with women.

Come on Antara. I'm homosexual and I resent these kind of inferences with pedophilia and homosexuality.

Furthermore, this article is really slanted to show homosexual behavior as some kind of lack of availability of female persuasion.

I am totally repulsed by the domination of others. And I believe the Taliban is a radical religious group whom I totally disagree with.

7-10-2009 2:21 AM
Antara
Come on Antara. I'm homosexual and I resent these kind of inferences with pedophilia and homosexuality.
Gee, here I wuz thinkin you were a married (to a man) wife and mother???
Does your husband have any clue about your online life?

As for your resentments, they are not my problem.
7-10-2009 2:23 AM
merrie
Pederasty is a common practice in Afghanistan with influential warlords. In some cases, the man (usually much older) actually prefers their young male concubine to their wife.
7-10-2009 2:35 AM
Antara
Merrie, it all so sick eh?

I first heard the stories about "Man-Love" Thursdays from a guy who has been living and working in Afghanistan for nearly 5 years now, and was in Iraq before that. I couldn't believe it......
He is an amateur photographer and he took a lot of photos of the women and kids there.....seeing the real deal is such a wake up call.

One thing he said while showing me pics of women sitting in the dirt covered in filthy blue burqas:

"They treat their dogs like shit--and they treat their women worse than dogs"

7-10-2009 9:00 AM
debbyski
Yes,

I am married and a mother Antara. And since you are trying to make my personal life your God damned business I will tell you this:

I am totally and completely honest with my husband. Most people can't handle the truth because our culture is set up not to rock the boat and to ostracise those who do. Someone might ge mad at us. We might be rejected. We might have to spend time doing something distasteful.

My particular truth is that I deserved happiness. I deserved love, respect, and caring. And I also deserved to treat others in my life with the same love and respect, and I do that.

I have gone through transitions that others didn't like; transitions that made me question my li...
7-10-2009 9:44 AM
Antara
I am glad you are happy! Must be a very special man you have there

As for this:

you are trying to make my personal life your God damned business I will tell you this:
surely you jest? I never "made you" do a thing, lol.

You are the one spreading your ever so personal details on here, yet again.

One might even think you enjoy it!
7-10-2009 9:49 AM
Antara
Btw:

The truth is that unless you are homosexual yourself, you, as a
heterosexual woman (if you are a woman) cannot speak to the issue of
homosexuality
This is simply not true.

And this:

And you cannot link pedophilia and homosexuality together in one
sentence with a little winky because everyone can see that for what
it's worth, which is fear and hatred.
is a bit baffling since the clip is quite explicit as to what the subject matter is.

Simply put---it ain't always about you Debbiski...
7-10-2009 3:26 PM
debbyski
Ok Antara,

Obviously the Taliban is a radical religious sect who treat their women terribly. Who would disagree with that? And I think I said that it wasn't about homosexuality, but about power and control.

But I have the feeling that you always take opportunities to somehow link homosexuality in general with this sick sort of behavior.

And as far as you speaking to homosexuality in general, you can't if you aren't homosexual! Just like I can't tell you to never act upon your heterosexual inclinations, you can't tell someone whose orientation is homosexual to not act upon theirs. It's simply ignorant to judge about a subject matter you know nothing about.
7-10-2009 3:38 PM
debbyski
Furthermore,
My marriage is none of your business just like your personal sex life (or lack of it) is none of mine. People who pontificate about other's personal lives have feeble minds Antara.

The truth of the matter is that I am an honest individual. So don't ask me on a clip of yours if my husband is aware of my online "life" whatever the hell you mean by that. You don't know me, so quit trying to judge anything about me or my personal life.

That kind of behavior is not only judgmental but actually creepy. So get a life of your own, or a man, or a woman, or whatever it is you like. I don't care, but don't presume to know anything about me or my family. And I don't believe you are ...
7-10-2009 7:53 PM
Antara
lolol, i think you need a holiday
7-11-2009 12:17 PM
debbyski
Yes I do Antara, but I'll take that as a right wing apology
7-11-2009 12:27 PM
Antara
Apology for what?

I was trying to allow you a graceful exit after your completely insane meltdown here on this clip.

If anything, you ought to be thanking me.

Ps: you're welcome!
7-12-2009 6:57 PM
debbyski
Insane meltdown? *LOL*

One of these days MAYBE you will learn good social graces or at least how to interact with people Antara. Your snide comments have probably not won you many friends in real life. That's a shame. So grow up, and quit acting like an ass; life's too short. And that's the best piece of advice anyone could give you. And you can thank me
7-13-2009 3:12 AM
michellezm
Frankly Antara, I think you always handle yourself with class and dignity and I am sure your intelligence and humour has won over many a friend.
7-13-2009 7:23 AM
Antara
Thanks Michelle, I think the same of you.
It was nice of you to take the time to comment


7-13-2009 4:31 PM
debbyski
Do you really think so Michellezm?

Gee, here I wuz thinkin you were a married (to a man) wife and mother???
Does your husband have any clue about your online life?
You really think that particular statement was handled with class? Come on. That was a snide comment and you know it.

I have to think perhaps something is going on regarding a resentment with you towards me rather than your admiration of Antara. I think I have always treated you with respect and kindness and if you feel I have mistreated you in some way, then please tell me.
7-13-2009 6:59 PM
Antara
Debbie,

You have been name calling and tossing insults throughout this clip. I have decided to move away from engaging in this idiotic exchange with you any further.

Frankly, I am tired of you. I haven't really enjoyed anything you have had to say for quite some time now and I think its best you stay off my clips. As you said, Life is SHORT

Thanks.

Ps: If you want to start some of your endless self centered dramas with Michelle, please feel free to do it somewhere else.
7-13-2009 7:01 PM
michellezm
Now, why on earth should I bear resentment towards you, Debby? What are you guilty of? I really don't follow your reasoning.

I can only conclude that the resentment lies with you in as much as I have not rushed to your defense in the last couple of fracas you've had on Clipmarks (as I have done in the past).

I simply happen not to agree with you, Debby. I think you are being entirely unreasonable. Besides, calling Antara feeble minded, creepy and a cold hearted-bitch speaks for itself. Not once has Antara insult you.like that. Yes, she has behaved with dignity and grace and in my opinion always has.

May I suggest you drop this now Debby before you make a huge drama out of nothing.

A...
7-13-2009 7:54 PM
debbyski
Well Michellezm,

That's a shame you would ever feel bullied by me. I know you have felt bullied by other's in the past, but I have never bullied you; matter of fact I have always supported you when you felt you were going to quit clipmarks because of all the bullying you were receiving and you know that I'm speaking the truth.

The truth of the matter is that I felt calling this clip "homoerotic" instead of pedophilia was wrong. I tried to point out that no one would agree with the Taliban (which is a good example of a rigid religious movement and what evil it does to women and society in general). Instead I was snidely asked about my marriage, and my "online" life whatever that was supp...
7-13-2009 8:33 PM
Antara
You are the most deluded clipper on this site--no exceptions.

You call me names, throw hissy fits, and now try to rub some supposed past nicety you did for Michelle back in her face. Wow, how awesome is that??
Then you start a clip acting like you are a victim of nameless "trolls", LOL. What I find even more funny is that it is YOU coming on MY clips,...but you ban me from your clips, LOL. I rarely even read your clips anymore, much less bother commenting, so really....who cares.

Hilarious.

What happened on here was very revealing: I asked you a simple question. If you didn't want to answer it, you could have just not answered it. Of course, you will never admit that You loooooooove ta...
7-13-2009 9:22 PM
debbyski
Good riddens to you too babe Try to learn in your next life.
7-14-2009 12:23 AM
Antara
So I too speak my mind Michelle. And I intend to speak it for the last time on this clip.
LOL....yes, you truly are worthy of your words.....that lasted all of 5 minutes


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