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7-1-2007 6:08 PM
Satchamo
How anyone keeps it together after taps is played at a funeral, is beyond me. And it does not have to be a full military funeral as the one pictured obviously was. When my husband, a veteran who died of complications of a stroke, many years after serving, I had the flag on the casket, but I did not want taps--as he left no directions one way or the other--accepting the flag is difficult enough, because I knew what it cost both him and me--the birth of his first child, the first year of the child's life, missing birthdays/anniversaries--the families of the soldier/veteran earn that flag just as the veteran did!
7-1-2007 10:36 PM
ClipClipHooray
Moving picture, moving comment Satchamo.

It is a shame how many belittle and/or take for granted the sacrifices made by others for each of us.
7-1-2007 11:49 PM
The REAL Napster
Firefighters and police officers also get bagpipes and ceremonies. They too, sacrifce their lives so that others may live. Not too steal the thunder of any vets, but I think all put thier lives on the line deserve respect. Great pic, BTW.
7-2-2007 1:23 AM
Deepti
wow, what a pic....really moving....
7-2-2007 1:49 AM
skwirlinator
7-2-2007 5:49 AM
vampy2
A very moving photo and comments ,Peace seems easy, but, so hard to obtain.
7-2-2007 6:52 AM
Thorne
Poor baby. Made all the worse by the needlessness of the sacrifice of this brave life lost.
7-2-2007 8:12 AM
thefoxalmighty
that was touching... poor lad..
7-2-2007 3:48 PM
Satchamo
Thorne, I take exception to your comment about the needlessness of the sacrifice. It is not needless! You sleep under the blanket of freedom that that sacrifice provided. As Col. Jessup says in "A Few Good Men," "...we live in a world that has walls. And those walls have to be guarded by men with guns. ...you want me on that wall, you need me on that wall....I suggest you pick up a weapon and stand a post." As I said in my earlier post, the family of the veteran earns that flag just as much as the veteran does and is proud to have earned it! We don't ever like having earned it, especially in this case of one so young, but we're proud we did!
7-2-2007 4:26 PM
RecordSage
Very well said, Satchamo and please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. It's very tragic and most sad when loved ones are lost in wars, but what's even sadder is that there are people who can't seem to comprehend the sacrifices made... and even worse not appreciate and respect those sacrifices for what they are... instead pushing their political agendas and ill-placed beliefs at all the wrong times and all the wrong places, like this post here. Most of them have never known what it's like to be proud, be patriotic, be selfless... or spill a drop of their own blood... all they know is the inept rhetoric of their parents, college professors etc.

I hope this boy grows up remembering...
7-2-2007 4:36 PM
Thorne
Satchamo, I accept and honor your opinion. You are as free to take exception to my comment as I am free to take exception to a war based on lies, and the many, many needlessly sacrificed lives it has claimed.
7-2-2007 4:40 PM
Thorne
And RecordSage, we have a photo here that is as filled with grief as for any sacrificed father. I too, pray that this boy "remembering this moment, as painful as it was, and never forgetting the immense deeds done by his father and countless others." I pray he will not grow up bitter at a country that allowed, through their inattention and apathy the death of his father and countless other innocents, who were trying to do what they thought best.
7-2-2007 6:21 PM
debbyski
RS,
To assert that Thorne's exercise of free speech is disloyal and does a disservice to those who have sacrificed for the principals of liberty and freedom is just plain wrong.
7-2-2007 8:31 PM
kvk101
Freedom of speech is one thing but there is a time and a place and such a thing as compassion and respect. To say that someone's loved one 'needlessly' sacrificed their life is to me, an inexcusable example of the apathy you blame on others.
7-2-2007 8:33 PM
kvk101
and to use personal tragedy as a stage for your political beliefs is not liberty.
7-3-2007 4:51 AM
debbyski
Freedom of speech is one thing


You seem to bring up the question, is freedom a good thing or not? Would you have Thorne "shut up" because it violates your sense of compassion and respect? Are you seeing her comments as a usage of personal tragedy? Would you like to see these sorts of discussions restrained?
I think Thorne is rightfully saying that being pro-war is not necessarily patriotic and I personally find that statement to be very compassionate in nature.
7-3-2007 5:01 AM
cementedminds
That poor little boy.
7-3-2007 9:57 AM
Thorne
the first comment that referred to a political opinion was this:
It is a shame how many belittle and/or take for granted the sacrifices made by others for each of us.
I find the sacrifices made by our troops and their families to be bigger than most can fathom unless they are personally involved. I find it a horror that so many americans sit around spewing rhetoric, who have no idea just how big, and why, these sacrifices are made. Blind patriotism may salve these wounds for some, but not for all.
Having lost family members and friends myself to this horrible war, I am acutely aware of the sacrifice. I am offended to the core that these honorable people have sacrificed thei...
7-3-2007 10:21 AM
enbar
This idea that some of the commenters on this thread seem to have, that if you've lost someone in the war then you have a right to demand that no one voice any criticisms, is insulting to the intelligence and freedom of Americans. And Thorne demonstrates that it's not true. Having a family member in the military, or serving in the military yourself, does not mean you check your ability to think for yourself at the door. Nor does it mean you blindly support your government's policies. I realize it's not my business, but I think RecordSage and everyone who's attacked Thorne's patriotism ought to apologize. Shame on you for impugning someone else's character on the basis of their political view...
7-3-2007 10:25 AM
debbyski
I realize it's not my business, but I think RecordSage and everyone who's attacked Thorne's patriotism ought to apologize. Shame on you for impugning someone else's character on the basis of their political views, and then claiming to be doing it in defense of American values.
I am 100 percent in agreement with you Enbar.
7-3-2007 11:02 PM
Satchamo
Now who's being sensitive? Its okay for Thorne to say its a needless death, but the rest of us have to shut up and apologize because we don't agree with Thorne? My husband was drafted in 1967 and discharged in 1969. We lived through being called "baby killers" and worse. The hatred of the Vietnam War began with the same comments being made now, needless war, needless deaths, butting into a civil war, what are we there for, etc. The comment about the needless death brought back 1967-1969 like it was yesterday. What's next, burning draft cards, "Hell no, we won't go!", burning ROTC buildings, Chicago riots just before the Democratic convention, burning flags--as the old adage states, "th...
7-3-2007 11:09 PM
Satchamo
If you're against the war, then for your country's sake, support your candidates with your time and cash, vote for the candidates that have your same view--vote for your choice for Congressman, Senator and President. I've already given money to my choices and will give more before this election cycle is over and then I'll vote for my choices come election day. All this rhetoric is just so much hot air--if you really think you're right--then do something!
7-3-2007 11:40 PM
RecordSage
@debbyski, thorne, enbar - all of you are falling off the left side of the spectrum and thus falling over each other trying to support the next. Nothing admirable, nor surprising.

However, I'd say that our comments here have nothing to do with free speech or anything else stated. It's a matter of basic respect and courtesy. That's what was challenged here. You could have your political views, but you could also have some respect and that respect certainly isn't being shown by dropping some political stuff or beating your chest until you knuckles bleed, stating that you have every right to... Nobody's advocating taking your rights away... but there's a place and there's a time and this ...
7-4-2007 12:09 AM
Satchamo
Thank you RecordSage--Why didn't I think to say that? I felt, no knew, it was disrespectful--In my comments, I just wasn't getting there.
7-4-2007 1:05 AM
Thorne
Sorry, RS. Not buying it. This image is one that Satch found cruising flicker or some such. It is not satch's son, or grandson.
Satch herself says:
"When my husband, a veteran who died of complications of a stroke, many years after serving,"
This clip is poignant and evokes feelings for satch. I respect that. It also evokes feelings for me. Too bad you can't respect that.
Have you lost someone to this travesty of a war? I have. My godson of 22 years is dead. His mother and father feel the same as I. That it was a horrible sacrifice in a needless war. We have a right to those feelings. The bright eyed, patriotic young man who enlisted and went to Iraq returned an o...
7-4-2007 1:18 AM
Thorne
choice. I also petition, write letters, make phone calls and blog. In fact, I'll be blogging tomorrow for ThePeaceTraindot org in a "Peace is Patriotic" blogswarm. How many troops are you emailing or writing?? How many troops are you baking cookies for?

Satch, my husband, grandfather, 2 uncles, and godfather all were vets, and all died many years later from non war related causes as did your husband. I have 3 flags. Each one broke my heart, but none more than the most recent one, given my best friend and mother of my godson just over 6 months ago.

So you and Rs and whoever else go ahead and tell me I'm unpatriotic or don't know when to speak. I'll tell you all that I will speak out ...
7-4-2007 2:02 AM
kvk101
Hypothetically...what if your godson had been an anti-war supporter. And he so believed in and valued this that he went so far as to go to Iraq and was able to meet and speak to the insurgents...to talk about peace. While he's there he is killed by the people he is meeting with. As a result his death is described as needless and used by the right as a political platform to justify the war. How would you feel? I don't feel that anyone is trying to take anyone's freedom of speech...but for god's sake we're all connected. And as much as you have a right to feel what you feel so do others. Looking at that little boy and then using that to push and agenda just seems to dehumanize something truly private and sacred.
7-4-2007 2:53 AM
Thorne
kvk101,
First of all, anything we imagine about the photo of the little boy is hypothetical. None of us knows what the family of that particular soldier felt. Whether they felt his sacrifice was necessary or needless. I repeat, this is not sactch's personal family pic. And all grief is sacred. Private?? It's posted on the web. Satch chose to share it and her feelings about the photo and the memories it evoked for her. I did the same. I didn't claim "free speech". Some folks came to my "defense" with their opinions, much in the same way as yourself and RS echoed/defended Satch's feelings with your own. Further, I was respectful of satch's feelings. I sta...
7-4-2007 9:17 AM
debbyski
@RS, your political agenda is to support this war and killing also, so your words or actions do not surprise me either, and I find them self serving. My idea of supporting the military would be to actually take care of our veterans. Have we learned anything from this war? NOPE. I have a cousin that served in Vietnam and he is still suffering from PTSD and fighting the government for his benefits. That is not right, and I'm out of this clip because I can't stomach the blatant support of the flag wavers guised under the pretense of caring for a little boy who won't grow up without his father all the while supporting a government who would cut benefits for veterans and give more and more to those who need it less.
7-4-2007 2:40 PM
Thorne
To anyone who cares to go beyond the 2000 word boundary of this clip, who dares to discover just how not far left I am, stop by my 2nd Cuppa or Not Fully Awake
post and have a read about my views on pacifism, gun control, free speech and violence as inherent. Feel free to comment, flame or engage.
7-4-2007 9:57 PM
Satchamo
This was not my clip--I just made the first comment, Alanocu clipped the picture--I attended friends funerals during Vietnam and now friends who served are dying again from age/lifestyle related ailments--those folded flags!--I had not paid attention to funerals before JFK's 24/7 funeral coverage--I was just a sophomore in college, so in 1967 when a lot a soldiers came home from Vietnam with flag draped coffins--it burns it into your memory. 1967 was one of the two highest casualty years of the war.
7-5-2007 11:31 AM
cptenaud
I am a Vietnam Veteran. Was there from November 1967 to September 1968. Was wounded three times. Two of those almost took my life. I saw the young men die around me. They were only 19 years old. Same as I was. And I saw no reason for why we were there. Nor were we told the reason why. I believe that is what most wars are like. It is not to reason why. It is but to do or die. Into the jaws of hell rode the six hundred. Truly pathetic rhetoric. When we stop glorifying wars and examine the truth behind them. We may find they were all needless. Like the old saying ( fighting is the last resort of the ignorant)

And I can tell you all from my own experience. The Government does not take care of i...
7-6-2007 2:12 PM
Thorne
satch, I know what you mean. I was preteen during those years. My uncle was constantly in harm's way. I was torn terribly between the propaganda of BOTH sides, and too young to recognize it for what it was. All I knew was that I feared for my uncle, while my grandpa, a WW II vet and staunch patriot in the terms of the day, decried Vietnam as a SNAFU, (while waiting for that knock on the door), and while kids at Kent State Ohio were dying for peaceful protest. Even then at my tender age
I was consumed with the need to know; obsessed with the desire to understand. I read everything I could get my hands on for several years during this time. I tried to put myself...
7-6-2007 2:33 PM
Thorne
cptenaud,

And I can tell you all from my own experience. The Government does not
take care of its Veterans. They would rather see them dead then
wounded. Dead is cheap. Stick them in the ground. Call them heroes.
Give a flag to who ever. Pay the one time death benefit. Move on to the
next puppet. Oh I forgot. They give a nice $35.00 medal called the
purple heart.
This is what moves me. Terribly. Above all, I suppose I'm a humanist and in the end whether a war was right or wrong, necessary or needless, doesn't hold a candle to my outrage at even a single person (the actual numbers are beyond horrific) being discarded and abused by the very government they served.
I also u...
7-6-2007 3:58 PM
RecordSage
@debbyski,

My 'political agenda' is to prevent islamofascists from their march of destroying America, Americans (that's including you, btw) and everything it stands for. The problem isn't my 'political agenda' - it's your lack of understanding of what we're dealing with here.

If the islamists were capable of reason - I would definitely have a different take on the issue. However, that's not the case.

As for the veterans, I certainly support them where I can and donate to veteran causes, I hope you do as well. Talking about support is meaningless, IMO, unless you actually do something about it.

All wars are bad, this one isn't any better or worse than others, despite the low casualties...
7-7-2007 6:40 AM
thisnamecantbetaken
@RecordSage

You mindlessly support a corrupt leader, who would take away as many rights, liberties and freedoms as he possibly can, while gaining more and more personal power for himself. Lies, corruption, torture, war... YOU should know better, knowing what it is like to live in a country ripe with oppression and government corruption. You now live in a nation you claim to love, yet you advocate, support and condone the exact same things you claim you ran from! How dare you! I suggest it is YOU that should toddle off back to the good ol' Motherland. Putin would just LOVE to have one like you in his rank and file. On second thought, maybe North Korea suits your persona and ideologies better. Shame on you.
7-7-2007 7:38 AM
thisnamecantbetaken
I apologize for my outburst. I find RS's comment absolutely atrocious and extremely offensive, but I shouldn't raise my voice. I apologize. I'm outta here...
7-7-2007 12:44 PM
Satchamo
I've now lived through 4 wars, Korean, Vietnam, Desert Storm and Iraq/Afghanistan. I was only 5 when Korea started, in college when Vietnam began. The only popular war (if one can call it that) was Desert Storm. From the beginning of the buildup until conclusion was 6 months or so. What does that say about present day Americans? If we can get in, do our job, and get out its an okay war, but if it drags on, we throw up our hands and get out. The generation that lived through World War II, knew it would not be easy or short-lived. (My parents generation and my husband's parents generation.) Our founding fathers, from the time of the first shot at Concord, knew it would not be a short wa...
7-7-2007 1:46 PM
debbyski
OH RECORD,
What the hell are you talking about?? Please do not accuse me of being anti-American for not supporting a war that was based on lies and deceit. What exactly is my kind????

Dammit Record,
Would you give one red cent of your tax money to support our troops and their mental and physical health issues? One red cent?? Put your money where your mouth is for a change.
Take those tax cuts you support for the rich and give them to our veterans for God's sake.

And I aint' going anywhere Record. I've been here for quite a while and I plan on staying. Please do NOT insult me by telling me to leave a county I love. And BTW, my family is in the DAR so we've been here quite a w...
7-7-2007 3:44 PM
ratilfar
First of all anyone who uses the term Islamofacist doesn't understand what this conflict is all about and second just because your side is fighting in a war that does not make it just or even supportable. The problem is that the American invasion of Iraq was founded on lies and for purposes that run contrary to the wants, needs and believes of many Americans (and many people around the world) and so its been rejected. If you want to fight terrorist, go where they hide, in the mountains of Pakistan, root out there terror and their financing networks and deal with the root causes/issues, don't give the enemy more idealogical ammunition. Thats just plain stupid.
7-7-2007 8:49 PM
RecordSage
@thisnamecanbetaken - no need to apologize - you certainly have the right to voice your thoughts, even though it's kind of surprising that the 'corrupt leader' hasn't taken that right away from you. Perhaps he's working on it to do in the last year of his administration.

The bottom line is - you're right, I did live in the land of oppression and I know exactly how it works. You have no clue what you're talking about, since you haven't lived like that. The fact that I lived in that environment makes me such a strong supporter of the USA. We certainly have problems in this country, but it is still the best place in the world.

And I don't get where you come off accusing of me of supportin...
7-7-2007 9:02 PM
RecordSage
@debbyski, in the order requested:

1) I'm not accusing you personally, because I don't know you personally. However, I would say that if negative statements are made about one's country, those statements clearly doing nothing to help in moral support and support the troops at least on that level, those statements being clearly used by the enemy to boost their propaganda and intentionally or not assist the enemy then yes, in my personal opinion this is anti-Americanism. There are no 2 Americas, one you support and one you don't. It's only one with good and bad that comes with it. If it's your country - I think it needs to be supported fully, especially at a time of war. Part of the prob...
7-7-2007 9:06 PM
RecordSage
4) It's interesting how you and thisnamecantbetaken are assuming that I tell you to leave the country, where if you read my comment and actually think about it - it doesn't say anything specific to you (unless you're ashamed of your country, of course).

5) Ok, officially debbyski is NOT to blame for losing this war!!! (is that good enought? ) We're not going to lose the war in real sense, but we certainly didn't do what we should've. <kids calling... I'll be back... >
7-7-2007 9:23 PM
RecordSage
Just averted another war downstairs by simply placing Thomas-the-train DVD and pushing play. How's that for slick way to end wars?

Anyway, as I said, the war in Iraq certainly could've and should've been won. Personally I believe that it was started for the right reasons, saddam had no place on this planet... but wasn't handled properly and thus the results. You certainly had nothing to do with it. I don't believe in hillary's approach of 'if I knew then what I know now' - that's BS, pure political BS. We're all that smart and all our vision is 20/20 after the fact. The country went to war, with the President declaring, the Congress voting for it and the population supporting it. ...
7-7-2007 9:33 PM
RecordSage
The problem, ratiflar, is that you don't have your facts straight. The war wasn't started based on 'lies', it was started based on series of intelligence reports, from several different countries (England and Russia being known 2). That information was weighted to be more credible by what saddam did in prior years (in terms of using WMDs), his blatant and unwavering support of terrorism and certainly being no friend of the USA.

If you want to say that we didn't find any meaningful quantities of WMDs in Iraq - that would be accurate. If you want to say that he didn't have them - you have no clue, many people would say that he did.

I agree with you that the war on terror should be fought ...
7-8-2007 12:08 AM
ratilfar
Yes the first lie was that WMDs where there reason for the invasion, it was merely an excuse, and as it turned out a bad one. Also many where warning that there was no there, there and where ignored (Hans Blix for one) and even those nations that erred on the side of caution and said that perhaps Iraq had some WMD capability did not support the invasion. The whole UN presentation was based largely on the testimony of Curveball, a German intelligence asset that the Germans had a lot of doubts about. Problem was that WMDs and false patriotism (or the fear of been called anti-American) spooked the press and allowed people like Judith Miller/Ahmed Chalabi to run roughshod over them and ignore th...
7-8-2007 12:09 AM
ratilfar
7-8-2007 1:50 AM
The REAL Napster
All you who say there were no WMD in Iraq are quite wrong. There were and many were either smuggled out or never found. There are satellite photos (and ground based photos) showing caravans of trucks rolling out of Iraq loaded with goodies before the U.S. ever rolled in.


Here's a D.O.D. report from March 11th, 1998
detailing the problem the U.S. faced with Saddams WMD program and why the destruction of those weapons was never verified.


If there never were any WMD in Iraq, [url=http://clipmarks.com/clipmark/BC30B...
7-8-2007 2:06 AM
The REAL Napster
7-8-2007 1:23 PM
ratilfar
The UN suspended those inspections. And the inspectors where allowed to return. Iraqi officials admitted that Saddam tried to bluff his way out of this, playing the ambiguity game but it failed. Also that site appear to be anti-Syria propaganda site run from Lebanon, not the best source of information. If they are in Syria, why hasn't the U.S. moved to seize, destroy them or better yet the IDF have them attacked. I doubt that the Israelis, who seem hellbent on attacking Iran would not take out these sites next door, is not how they work.

So your proof is in fact non existent, even the White House has admitted that there was no there, there. I would think that Tony Snow would be reminding a...
7-8-2007 11:27 PM
The REAL Napster
The UN suspended those inspections. And the inspectors where allowed to return.
The U.N. JUST suspended (as in about 1 week ago) those 'searches'. This was supposedly after Washington had pushed them for the last 2 years to discontinue the program.

Iraqi officials admitted that Saddam tried to bluff his way out of this, playing the ambiguity game but it failed.

There was a taped interview with one of Hussein's sons laughing about how they 'tricked' the U.N. weapons inspectors so easily.

If they are in Syria, why ha...
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