In a psychological sense, this is the equivalent of forcing us to rape each other, demoralizing us and lowering our self-esteem because we will have allowed this to happen.

Sounds like a good time to write, email and harrass the ever-lovin', holy shtuff of some U.S. Representatives. If these contractors could make money by pimping their grandmas and and daughters (as well as our grandmas and daughters), of any age, they would do so. And the Pentagon and D.O.D would give them their blessing.
Time to howl and holler, people.