One of the biggest traps is the hypothetical. "If I was in that situation I would" They very often take little into account of the conditions as they really are. i.e. It's easy to imagine that cold can be endured when it stays in the province of the imagination, but when a chill hits the bones in real life, not only is the cold inescapable, but it changes the way you think. Many hypothetical scenarios, do not account for the onset of despair, which can be impossible to imagine, or even recreate, in retrospect having being suffered before. Our mind can refuse to entertain the thought. the concept of hypocrisy is so condemned, it has become a buzz word that can be denied without consideration...

One of the biggest traps is the hypothetical. "If I was in that situation I would" They very often take little into account of the conditions as they really are. i.e. It's easy to imagine that cold can be endured when it stays in the province of the imagination, but when a chill hits the bones in real life, not only is the cold inescapable, but it changes the way you think. Many hypothetical scenarios, do not account for the onset of despair, which can be impossible to imagine, or even recreate, in retrospect having being suffered before. Our mind can refuse to entertain the thought. the concept of hypocrisy is so condemned, it has become a buzz word that can be denied without consideration
When we are faced with a situation that resembles one that resembles a hypothetical, and we fail to act as we imagined there are bound to be loopholes that we can find.
Before criticizing the splinter in someone else's eye, we have to remove the beam in our own
.We can want a clean house, yet keep sweeping dirt under the carpet, Before a problem can be solved it must be recognized. We may act hypocritically for any reason, but blame wont solve it. We must each recognize and remedy our own hypocrisy, as no-one else can see what we feel or believe. We can see our own causes, all anyone else can see are the symptoms.