Self Sabotage Article #2


	Self Sabotage Article #2

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5-14-2008 6:53 PM

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<P>Now back to the title.</p> <P>Self sabotage is a pattern that is seen in individuals who have experienced 
some form of emotionally traumatic experience in their early life. If not 
properly cleared the memory of this incident sets up in them a sense of 
vulnerability, fear and hyper vigilance around any event or situation that 
resembles it in some way.</p> <P>For example suppose that you experienced a very bad relationship in the past. 
The negative emotional imprint of this relationship will still be inside 
you.</p> <P>Whenever you attempt to engage a new relationship you will be vulnerable to 
re-experiencing the old painful emotions again. The fear of doing so often leads 
one to unconsciously sabotage their current relationship so that they will avoid 
feeling the past trauma.</p> <P>Hence the self sabotaging behavior is in an attempt to maintain a sense of 
internal emotional peace or harmony.</P></blockquote></div><div style="margin: 0px 6px 6px 4px;"><table style="font-size: 11px;border-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%"><tr><td style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;">&nbsp;</td><td align="right" style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;width:107px" width="107"><a href="http://clipmarks.com/share/A5611830-B73D-4364-8870-E02770621139/blog/" title="blog or email this clip"><img src="http://content6.clipmarks.com/images/c2b-foot.png" border="0" alt="blog it" width="107" height="17" style="border-width:0px;padding:0px;margin:0px;" /></a></td></tr></table></div></div>

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