I wanted to clip this to say that I think it's a very personal thing to come out. Lord knows I was in the closet as a bisexual woman for a long time, and still am to a great degree for several reasons. One is personal safety. One is that that it's really nobodies business. And it would be nice if everyone had that kind of attitude, but ppl don't and on a totally different level it's so personally freeing to unchain that bondage that keeps something inside you that feels so dishonest from others. You really can't be yourself until you are yourself, and hiding that very important part of yourself is very hurtful and destructive to the essence of who you are. But you do it to protect the people you love from inflicting societies pain upon them. I can understand why some people wouldn't want to come out. It's safe; even if it does slowly destroy you. So, I'll leave the judgment to the pundits. That's what they do best

You really can't be yourself until you are yourself, and hiding that very important part of yourself is very hurtful and destructive to the essence of who you are.

Amen, my sister and fellow Deborah.

Thank you Dulio's. You are one strong woman and I admire you greatly.

Back at ya, sister. Next time I go South, or you come North, we will have to meet!

Sounds like a plan to me

Off topic, debbyski, where is TN? Are you guys friends in the real world? I miss her clips and comments!

Oh, and on your photostream, is that handsome man cabanaben? Is the lovely young woman your daughter?

Hey Deb, as usual you express your thoughts in an intelligent, thoughtful and totally honest manner. I too was in the closet for many years. I was actually married twice to two different women, before I finally decided to live my life honestly. I can sincerely say that my life finally began in full at the age of 35 when I shirked off the yoke of sexual oppression. As you know, I got married on August 31 to the man with whom I have shared my life for 26 years. Now Arnold is not only my partner, but he is my legally wedded husband, as I am his. What a wonderful country Canada is when it comes to social issues. I DO hope the U.S. catches up with us soon.

Hi Dulios! How have you been girl!

Now look what you've gone and done... Now I got debs bossing me around again. No rest for the wicked, I guess. *LOL*

Summer's all but over (and I'm running outta beer anyway), so yeah, I'd better get to clipping again.

bad assed

cute behind

And ain't that the truth!! Haha!

I'd better see a clip from you since I just got home from working such a long hard day girlfriend!!!!

And don't you forget, even though you did manage to kill Kenny, my arse is the baddest and the cutest of all (but then you always did say I'd think all of Europe was hitting on me when they were just friendly) *lololololo*

Now you know where to come back to when you run out of beer don't ya girl???

So hey sister go sister go sister:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Mp115afFIA

GAWD,
That video keeps reminding me of that horrible crush I have on Pink

Whose hair do you think is the best TN?

*LOL*

my arse is the baddest and the cutest of all

You ain't got nuthin' on me, woman! You are SO competitive! *LOL* And as for Kenny? Was it you or I who caused the poor boy's demise? (not to mention 4 of his mates.) Hmm? Which also goes to show, Americans can't handle their liquor either!!

Poor Kenny. Poor debs. Hahahahaha

*LOL*

I"m competitive???? You hush. While you were busy killing Kenny and all those silly boys I was collecting phone numbers in my cell from all the hot gals How soon you forget!
Poor debs . . .
NOT

And whose hair do you think is the best in that video???
hmmmmmmmmm? I bet I can guess

Then guess!

EASY! Christina! Am I right? You are the hair expert. And pheck you anyway, now I spend tons of time on my own hair, and it's all your fault! But, you know what, I have the perfect straightening product now.

GAWD,That video keeps reminding me of that horrible crush I have on Pink


Gee, Deb, I thought your crush was on me.

U too sugar!