Too much commitment may be unhealthy for relationships


	Too much commitment may be unhealthy for relationships

Silkweaver

12-6-2008 11:02 PM

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behavior, relations, psychology

Silkweaver says:

It also factors into one or more partners developing manic, obsessive (or needy) behaviors with regard to love.

RCSE might place one at risk for serious mood changes after break-ups, divorce or threats to one's relationship. Identifying it during the early stages of a relationship can prevent such negative outcomes or help partners recognize that they are incompatible.

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12-7-2008 6:19 PM

jimbo1000

been there

12-8-2008 1:04 PM

darkduskx

Individuals with high levels of RCSE

That sounds less threatening than "psycho ex turned stalker"

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