The Problem with the Hook-Up Culture


	The Problem with the Hook-Up Culture
alanocu
5-19-2008 8:28 AM
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dating, relationships, respect, love, responsibility
alanocu says:
From the page: "Furthermore, as my friend Dave is fond of saying, “Sex is like ice cream. The more flavors you sample, the harder it becomes to settle on one flavor for the rest of your life.”
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5-19-2008 10:34 AM
tanyamm
Casual sex not only disrespects the woman I think it disrespects the man.
5-22-2008 11:13 PM
russman
Casual Sex is fine and fun. We humans are lucky to enjoy it for what it is. Break free of the conservative and religious shame that's been taught to you. Embrace your sexuality. Be safe and responsible, but do not fear it.

You get maybe 70-90 years on this planet... enjoy it while it lasts, because one day, it will end.
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