enbar says: David Burns is a pioneer in popularizing the cognitive-behavioral approach to mood therapy developed by Aaron Beck. As someone who has struggled on and off with crippling depression my whole life, I have found this list of "cognitive distortions" pretty useful in reframing certain elements of my thinking. the bird crap meets saleman thing really did happen to me but it affected me in the reverse (I was already depressed). I was walking along minding my own business, along/under a telephone wire where birds were resting. Although the day was sunny, it suddenly felt like rain. Unfortunately, the rain turned chalky. At first I started crying because just when I thought I couldn't get crapped on anymore, here I was "literally" getting crapped on by birds. I suddenly started laughing so hard that I began to cry even harder because I couldn't stop laughing. I wasn't sad anymore (life was still rough), because THE worse thing that could have happened to me at that point, had. It does come from the "www.spiritsite.com" so don't pretend to yourself they have any scientific authority whatsoever. Also, don't pretend that recognizing these certain processes that occur in your brain will suddenly make them go away. It's psuedo-science, it's psychic superstition to just assume that 'positive thinking,' that willfully choosing to change your thoughts from the negative to the positive when you recognize them will improve your mood or your patterns of thinking. You don't willingly participate in the negative thinking, the negativity just pops into your head as naturally as anything else does. The 'negativity' is caused by something else, not the 'negative thinking' that is... Actually, Insolent, I'm not sure of the evidence you're basing your Tom Cruise-like rant on, but if you're really interested in this stuff, you might want to investigate the clinical evidence in favor of the effectiveness of cognitive-behavioral therapy. It's not "positive thinking," and there is a great deal of quantitative evidence to back up its claims (which are not extravagant -- it's strictly a form of mood therapy), which cannot be said for most other non-psychiatric therapy modalities. It's certainly not "pseudo-science" and it's not cheap self-help hucksterism either. I'm personally not a devotee -- I believe there are plenty of situations where it doesn't deliver -- but with all du... Makes autistic people far more normal than neurotypicals - but then I am a little biased! Cheers http://whitterer-autism.blogspot.com enbar, Thanks for the clip. It helps to remember the main ones and keep them in mind. The way we think can make a difference. 100%? No. But I'll take 50 or 30 or even 10% improvement if I can do something about it to make it happen. This is mildly useful... all depends on the kind of person one is and since everyone can be (and is) so different - this only applies to some people and not others, not necessarily being right or wrong. Also, degrees of these things vary as well... if someone has a closed mind then it would make sense to say that absolutes aren't very good, otherwise - there's nothing wrong with them, just means the person is a decision maker. Mental filter You pick out a single negative detail and dwell on it exclusively, so that your vision of all reality becomes darkened, like the drop of ink that discolors a beaker of water. Example: You receive many positive comments about your presentation to a group of associates at work, but one of them says something mildly critical. You obsess about his reaction for days and ignore all the positive feedback. sounds like a few Bush haters I know of! LOL Funny one UpStateMike. The thing is, personally, I would have said it sounds like some Bush supporters I know. Oh well, diff'rent strokes and all that. enbar, you're dealing with the wrong supporters... UpStateMike is right (see, it even rhymes...) Excellent clipping, Enbar, as usual....that's why you get so many (deserved) pops. Don't let the ignorant commenters out there stop you.... Thanks for the vote of confidence Kore7. Much obliged. |
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