Church Gives Sanctuary to Gay Man and His Family


	Church Gives Sanctuary to Gay Man and His Family

zasel

9-20-2008 2:37 AM

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religion, church, homosexuality, gay, family

zasel says:

Even down south.......waaaay down south, one can find bastions of welcome and support in Christian congregations.

It both warmed my heart, and angered me, to read of the struggles this family had to endure, and yet showed the motivation, love, fortified and determination, to bring their children up in the religion they both cherished along with teaching them about understanding, compassion and the sanctity of true love.

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