First of all there is something strangely erotic about this whole diy massage. Second I don't know if I'm comfortable giving myself a nude massage. I'm sure I'll have to insist that I wear some clothing so that I don't get uncomfortable with myself.

I don't see the eroticism but then, I always wear a hat. Perhaps if I tried it without the hat I would see the eroticism.

I don't entirely understant the pop thing. What is it for? Also, is there some way to send direct messages? I imagine there is but I don't see where it is on my screen and I don't want to click the help link.

Popping is to show interest/support for a clip. The more pops, the higher on the list. No IM ing here. Comments only! Welcome!

Also, is there some way to send direct messages?

Your comment is your direct message. Public, but direct.

That besides, a really good massage will rival good sex any day, so I can see wurdsgirl's point.

I see your questions have been answered and since you know how to get a hold of me already private messaging here would be rather redundant.

You don't see the eroticism because you are married and don't have to give yourself a massage!!!!

What is a pop?

A pop is a virtual hug for a job well done. It's like saying, "Thank you for clipping this for me it's so nice of you I've learned/laughed/cried so much as a result of this".

That besides, a really good massage will rival good sex any day, so I can see wurdsgirl's point.

But the two are not necessarily exclusive!

Maybe that's the connection.

I massage myself quite frequently and, I have even given consideration to expanding that massage to more than one area of my body. :o

We, as humans, find eroticism in various things. Our triggers might get tripped in thumbing through a nicely used copy of Strunk and White's "Elements of Style" or hearing just the right song on the radio. Why would it be unusual to find it in self-massage? To each his (and her) own!!! (And you can read into that last sentence multiple meanings!).