<div style="margin: 12px 0px; font-family: arial; color: #333333; background: #ffffff; border: solid 4px #e5e5e5; width: 100%; clear: left;"><div class="CM_CTB_Content_Wrap" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;background-color: #ffffff;"><div style="border-bottom: solid 1px #dcdcdc; white-space: nowrap; margin-bottom: 8px; background-color: #eeeeee ;background-image: url(http://clipmarks.com/images/source-bg.gif); background-repeat: repeat-x; height: 24px; line-height: 24px; vertical-align: middle; padding-bottom: 4px; color: #666666; font-size: 10px;" ><a href="http://clipmarks.com/clip-to-blog/" title="see clips that are hot right now"><img src="http://content.clipmarks.com/blog_embed/7db92df5-8872-4c9f-953a-50120b4eacfa/758B943C-B1E8-47C6-9F78-37D7AFEDCC1B/" alt="" width="19" height="19" border="0" style="vertical-align: middle; margin: 0px 4px; display: inline; border: none; float:none;" /></a>clipped from <a title="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1" href="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1" style="font-size: 11px;">www.soulmate.org</a></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1"><table background="" bgcolor=""><tr><TD align="center" bgColor="#90ee90" colSpan="2">If you don't let go of who you were you will never discover who you are! <I></I></TD></tr></table></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1">When someone asks us "who are you?", we rattle off an automatic reply (I'm a student, a mom, a painter, a goddess) - these are predetermined answers that do not require contemplation.</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1">When our self definition breaks down we are lost. We are nothing. We feel as if we have died - a part of us has! This state of "nothingness", of being undefined, IS existential depression. <BR></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1">Through "reaching bottom" we surrender. We have to admit we don't know who we are, and for the first time have "permission" to pay attention, ask questions and learn. This inquiry begins a transformation to a "new" definition of self with a larger capacity for freedom, joy and life! <BR><BR></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.soulmate.org/109.html?&clear=1">As we grow in consciousness we take our self definitions more lightly, and the death/birth cycle of who we believe we are is quicker and less traumatic. Eventually every definition, including "I'm human", will fail. And yet I AM!</blockquote></div><div style="margin: 0px 6px 6px 4px;"><table style="font-size: 11px;border-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%"><tr><td style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;">&nbsp;</td><td align="right" style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;width:107px" width="107"><a href="http://clipmarks.com/share/758B943C-B1E8-47C6-9F78-37D7AFEDCC1B/blog/" title="blog or email this clip"><img src="http://content8.clipmarks.com/images/c2b-foot.png" border="0" alt="blog it" width="107" height="17" style="border-width:0px;padding:0px;margin:0px;" /></a></td></tr></table></div></div>

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