invictus says: Considering this comment from Jason on one of the recent clips: What is blowing in the Clipmarks winds that breeds so much animosity lately? At least this thread got all the way up to 9 comments before it turned nasty.I think he is damn right. We mustn't allow this, and keep the mild climate of Clipmarks which makes it unique on the net. A little bit more tolerance, more understanding and a dose of humor could help us keep here as it has always been. This is not a criticism or complaint for anybody; I include myself in it, because I know I have been rude to some other members here a few times - which I later much regretted. Jason directed my attention to a potential problem that has began appearing on the horizon and I wanted to share my worries with you, that's all. I don't get why everyone is tip-toeing around the fact that Merican brought this to Clipmarks. He drops bombs, things explode. Come on Godfrey, it is not Merican or any other specific person. We are talking about a general problem here (or at least, I am). Ok. Just spontaneous combustion, I guess. uh huh. This is the same 'general problem' i see happening everywhere, on and offline. Issues are being raised along with hackles and there is a certain amount of spitting, scratching, biting firebombing, rocketpropelled grenade shooting, car wrecks and general mayhem. I am sure by now everyone knows the 'hair-on-fire-subjects' that are going to lead to rioting in the streets and cattle-raping. If you can't stand the heat- simply don't join in the ensuing fracas. True. I was just pointing to how and when it arrived here in full effect. It's not really about the topics, it's the obsession When I first found clipmarks, I mistakenly thought I had found a bookmark service and set it to private all the time. I still default to private, actually. Then I found the public forum more interesting. I have participated in blogs where everyone is talking to themselves. It seems to me more interesting to talk to people who are mixed in views. As to the "obsession," I think things are pretty bad off in this country, so I feel like communicating about it. I would be just as happy to do so in a civil manner, but don't appreciate the very sharp responses from a handful of people who use derisive language then cry foul if confronted with the same. ^5 Merican- I have observed the same. I have watched people hound your posts like dogs pissing on a tree, and I have experienced the same. To do foul and then cry foul is most foul indeed. You beat me too it, Invictus. I think the fact that this clip itself was immediately hijacked and now appears headed towards the same angry, downward spiral shows that the commenting atmosphere seems antagonistic as of late. I see nothing wrong with a call for civility in the "public" sphere here. Towards the beginning of Clipmarks, everyone talked about how fun and respectful discussion was here, as opposed to the other social sites. I remember EricG expressed hope that we could set the conversational tone here through positive examples alone. It's not too late to rise to this goal. We all know there are people with opinions out there we see as antagonistic to our own principles. There wi... Don't give up hope, my comment was simply aimed to say I want to clip and comment civilly. I DON'T want to be attacked by others. I encourage others to think before they attack. Wonder where the animosity comes from? Read and Listen to these sorts threats for 10 years- knowing that these people are representing the leadership of your country and are talking about you and generations of your American family- EsPECIALLY if you have native blood and have experienced this kind of violence in real life: VESTER: "You say you’d rather not talk to liberals at all?" COULTER: "I think a baseball bat is the most effective way these days." (FOX News Channel, DaySide with Linda Vester, 10/6) "We're going to keep building the party until we're hunting Democrats with dogs." - Senator Phil Gramm (R-TX), Mother Jones And I thin... Surreal. Entirely irrelevent to the climate that existed here at Clipmarks. Godfrey, I haven't seen that many posts from you so I dion't know. But RecordSage, BigBadWolfe, Willhelm and others use demeaning language. It is the truth. They then take offense at angry responses. It would be nice if Athyrius or I ignored them or managed to NOT take their bait. At one time Bookchick even complimented me for not taking the bait, but I guess I have fallen off the wagon. It started off with just RecordSage. He was easy enough to ignore. But when 3 and sometimes 4, 5 or more gang up, and use demeaning language, it is just as easy strike out in retailation. Now you, seem to think it is all my fault for not letting the failure of the Bush administration and other ... It would be nice if Athyrius or I ignored them or managed to NOT take their bait.I have watched how they dog your posts Merican. I am sure others have as well. Responding in like to a yard full of dogs that attack you everytime you step out the door is not 'taking bait' - you are letting them know that if they bite they stand a chance of getting kicked in return. That's all. I will never lay down for any bully at any time. I appreciate that. I really am proposing a way that this can be a peaceful location. BBW says I post too much, but I don't think that is really true. I think the essence is they think the little titles I put on the posts are too clever by half. I'm unlikely to change that. As you've noted, I do ignore you in terms of engagement. What I'm responding to is the comments of others related to the climate that I see you, in most part, to have changed. When you speak of demeaning lanuguage you sound like a child. I've followed their comments and see them as responses appropriate to your sometimes absurd assertions and conclusions. Your post are calculated bombs, from the wording of your headings to the extreme nature of your comments. Like I said. Boms are dropped. Explosions happen. Then you feign shock. Unbelievable. Godfrey said:Here is the problem. The right has so thouroughly taken over some parts of the country that they think that to merely challenge their ideology is absurd. It isn't. Your views are - in the wide sweep of world opinion and history - far more extreme than mine. I am simply unsettling to you. You then think it is fair to belittle me for holding views that don't seem comfortable to you. That is a problem. I don't belittle other for their views. As example of what I'm talking about as to your extremism was your recent heading "Hastert takes Bribes!", or something similar. That was just a blatant lie and distortion of the facts. My comfort doesn't depend on externals. The most recent news is conflicting. The FBI denies that they are looking into Hastert for bribes, but a few days earlier it appeared they were. But, more to the point, sources close to Abramoff say they were getting effective use out of their relation with Hastert. The news story gave the exact details. It so happens that "bribe" has a common meaning in American English and it has a jargon meaning. The jargon meaning is found in the law books. When you say he was NOT taking bribes, you are saying that he probably cannot be convicted of taking bribes. Since congress has written the laws that define bibes, I really don't care about that meaning. I am using the common meaning. Here, ... Gibberish like this is why I don't engage you. I don't care whether you engage with me. I just don't want to be attacked. Just for the record, while I have engaged with you as an adult you have called me childish and called what I have said gibberish. This is why I have said that you, as well as the others I have cited, belittle me and others with whom you disagree. You really should consider whether you are being honest with yourself when you deny belittling people. Absurd assertions... Blatant lie... Gibberish... these are a few selections from your comments, and this is it Godfrey: You can't stand with posts reflecting opinions that looked opposite to yours. You see the right to be sarcastic and aggressive for yourself when commenting on other peoples' posts and you accuse them posting "bombs", mentoning an incitement. What does it mean? Suppose I post a clip here with the most extreme and provocative title, like "Communism is the best for America!" Do you have to mess with it and attack? Everyone has the right to post his/her opinion (unless insulting others) and those posts can be wrong, misinformation, annoying, totally lie... You have other alter... I subscribe what you say Invictus. Twilight zone. I should have never bothered with all this because I don't really care about it. I haven't really been embroiled it. Y'all that have and are troubled by the "climate" work it out. This has just gotten too silly. [working it up] {back to ignore mode} Waitaminit..... Are you trying to say that simply posting Ann Coulter clips is going to be viewed as "bad behavior?" That's simply insane. Has anyone even suggested putting a stop to the posts about things like "10 reasons the Bible is wrong" or "Jesus was gay" or other crap like that? No. And I'll tell you why. No matter how rude you get, or how hard you bite, or how ignorant you appear to be, most people on the "right" observe and cherish your right to express yourself. The fact is that you hate to be reminded that there are still people out there that have not given in to the popular world view, the humanistic cult of man and man's greatness. That people see through your lies upon... of course not travis. i'm not sure where you got that impression but if i insinuated it i totally didn't mean to. No Eric, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to imply that I thought you were considering that course. I was just baiting the folks who would probably like it if you did. I had no fear of you actually doing it. I know that you and I disagree in major ways regarding politcs and such. But you seem to be very reasonable and I wasn't worried. But, thanks for the response. Wow that was quick! OK, I'm such a fool that I believed for a moment we could work it out together and soften the atmosphere a bit. No way. Maybe it's time to go back my private clipping sessions. Invictus, I agree with you on a lot of what you've said in this thread and good for you for starting it, but alas, such is the nature of CM right now that such a thread can only ever descend in, 'well, I did this, and they did that, and I did not do that, and he said, and then she said, and it was nothing to with me, and then they all said so we keeled over and then the sun exploded and it was all everyone's else's fault, so there, and you're all a bunch of freaks.' I exaggerate, for my own amusement really, but this point has made so often now (particularly this weekend) and it gets nowhere because everyone just goes on the defensive (and, often, the offensive too). Nice try though, and ho... invictus, you're absolutely right (about this comment area being hopeless) and I'm leaving this anti-American climate with you. If anyone has any doubts about my words, if you have an open mind and can be reasonable, simply look at the key characters mentioned (including myself of course) and look at their tag clouds, look at their icons and look at their comment headings. It's pretty self-explanatory. CM guys, please don't take this as any criticism of you - I do think that you've put together a first-class concept and execution. It works really well on the clipping side, because you can totally control its function... the comment side, being totally democratic clearly doesn't work. If... I would really like to see where I've posted such vile replies to anyones posts? In fact, if you go back through them, I have pleaded that we be able to discuss these things leaving vile remarks out of it even with Merican attacking my beliefs. Hell, I even congratulated Merican several times for intelligent replies. The ONLY thing I complained about Merican was that he was flooding the site with anti-Bush posts and I was missing other clips I would have been more interested in. Wow, sorry for expressing my feelings! The only person on this site I have issue with is Amaruca as she constantly thrown personal insults, rants and name calling which have little to do with the topic. I've lear... Self moderation policy suggestion: if you don't dig thetopic/poster, don't read the clip!
Don't even bother with it BBW, it's just gotten ridiculously silly. And if anyone is interested in my opionion on all this, well stated, refer to Geekette's previous comment. I believe a major issue is that "The Clipmarks Experience" right now is very similar for everyone. You come to the Public Clip Exchange and catch the latest. It's pushing everyone into the same place at the same time and you cannot expect everyone to agree on what's being posted and the opinions of commenters. In our coming upload we are combining the "Mine" and "Board" sections so that everyone has their own home, or a "My Exchange". It will let you truly customize your Clipmarks experience by easily following your clips and your favorite clippers and tags without having to dig through the Public Exchange every time you come to the site. I truly believe this will help, but I also want to... Good grief -- good luck -- goodbye! RecordS said: and I'm leaving this anti-American climateLOL! Have you never read some of the verbatim (and physically descriptive) records of the meetings that lead to the formation of this Country? The people in here have NOTHING on Americas founding fathers when it comes to Flame Wars - Many meetings were interjected with everything from brawls to outright duels in the street. I am just glad to see that some Americans still have a little fire under the ass. Although I do not approve of the 'gang up' tactics used by some. The *ignore* feature would bring world peace. Clipmarks is going to continue to grow and it's always going to be impossible for everyone to get along, but there will always be a group of clippers you enjoy connecting with. I think it's best to engage with them and let the others have their own space. There's room for everyone.I agree wholeheartedly with your comment, and I hope Clipmarks will ride out this storm before implementing any policies or flagging. After all, it may only be weather, and weather is n... Thanks brightgarden! Clip on we shall Geekette said: Well said knslyr... I have learned so much from some of the open, intelligent debate and I have indeed seen the other side when a topic is discussed rationally. Moderated boards, forums and even Clipmarks don't necessarily have to be a bad thing. It all depends on the moderator. History has shown the most effective/efficient form of government to be a monarchy or dictatorship. Such a structure is not inherently evil. The position of leader has the potential for both boon or bane, distinguished by the individual. The same can be said of moderators. Add one venomous commentor, and it can all go away. Why? Well, even if I "ignore" this commentor, that doesn't mean everyone will do the same. So, the comment thread gets hijacked, and the fruits of rational yet dissimilar thinking never come to bare. (Hmm...that usually doesn't happen. Re-do.) Add one venomous commentor, and it can all go away. Why? Well, even if I "ignore" this commentor, that doesn't mean everyone will do the same. So, the comment thread gets hijacked, and the fruits of rational yet dissimilar thinking never come to bare.Very well said, knslyr. You captured my sentiments exactly. Too many users seem to be unable to ignore clips they disagree with and jump to derail these clips through scathing insults rather than contribute any knowledgeable discussion.[quote... Amaruca said:About what? Out of respect to Eric and the "pop only" thread, I've addressed your comments here: Rifkala said: I respectfully disagree for the reasons I've already stated Though I obviously disagree, I respect your opinion. Who's been poopin in the SANDBOX? |
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