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	Styles of Love

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4-21-2007 9:05 AM

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4-29-2007 5:10 AM

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<div style="margin: 12px 0px; font-family: arial; color: #333333; background: #ffffff; border: solid 4px #e5e5e5; width: 100%; clear: left;"><div class="CM_CTB_Content_Wrap" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;background-color: #ffffff;"><div style="border-bottom: solid 1px #dcdcdc; white-space: nowrap; margin-bottom: 8px; background-color: #eeeeee ;background-image: url(http://clipmarks.com/images/source-bg.gif); background-repeat: repeat-x; height: 24px; line-height: 24px; vertical-align: middle; padding-bottom: 4px; color: #666666; font-size: 10px;" ><a href="http://clipmarks.com/clip-to-blog/" title="see clips that are hot right now"><img src="http://content.clipmarks.com/blog_embed/c7414666-b794-4baf-9cc5-5e01bc073afd/6A162262-E6F8-475B-AC32-7B1FA1F6C7E1/" alt="" width="19" height="19" border="0" style="vertical-align: middle; margin: 0px 4px; display: inline; border: none; float:none;" /></a>clipped from <a title="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm" href="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm" style="font-size: 11px;">changingminds.org</a></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm"><P> Three styles of love are (Sternberg):</P></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm"><UL>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Intimacy</I>: Closeness to, and liking of, the other person.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Passion</I>: Intense longing and physiological arousal. Ecstasy on
  reciprocation, despair on rejection.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Commitment</I>: The readiness to do anything for the sake of the love.</LI>
</UL></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm"><P>These combine to create seven styles:</P></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm"><UL>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Liking</I>: Intimacy alone</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Infatuation</I>: Passion alone</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Empty love</I>: Commitment alone</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Romantic love</I>: Passion + Intimacy.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Companionate love</I>: Intimacy + Commitment</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Fatuous love</I>: Passion + Commitment</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Consummate love</I>: Intimacy + Passion + Commitment</LI>
</UL></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm">six different stages</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://changingminds.org/explanations/theories/love.htm"><UL>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Eros</I>: Passionate and physical. Looks are important.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Ludus</I>: love as a non-serious game. Harm is not intended but often
  happens.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Storge</I>: slow-growing, evolving out of friendship and affection.
  Similarity is important.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Pragma</I>: Commonsense and pragmatic. Known conditions must be met.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Mania</I>: An emotional roller-coaster. Stereotyped romantic love.</LI>
  <I>
  </I><li style="margin-left:16px;padding-left: 0px;"><I>Agape</I>: Unselfish and giving. Spiritual and other-focused.</LI>
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