Sex is the ultimate trust with another human being isn't it? We trust that they desire us and we want intimacy in a relationship. While it certainly is easy to reach our to your partners genitals to get something going, it's impersonal and it's not touching what is the best in yourself. While on the surface it seems that sex is a biological drive like a need for food, I feel this kind of thinking tends to limit our perspectives and actually interferes with our relationships.

Let me try.

Let me try.

You don't have to ask twice.

@Alanocu; I so do agree, I think the best sex is always about intimacy.

Good exercise

Fukitol

Great clip & comments!!! I was actually trying to explain this concept to someone who just didn't get it!

This clip turned me on!

To quote Spike Lee, "the beautiful sex organ isn't between your legs, it's between your ears."

Foreplay is something that happens outside of the bedroom and begins in the mind. Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's closeness, safety, and trust and choosing to let yourself be vulnerable with the person you love.

Guys it is called Making love to the mind long before you ever touch the body. It is about the chemical (smell) reaction along with sight, sound, long before touch or taste. Than there is that intellectual thought process of Wow he/she has just stimulated your mind with a great joke,fascinating political debate, sensual poetry etc. That is what begins the ball rolling the emotional stuff comes in later so to speak.

Where do you find these clips, ds?

hahaha,
Masbury, a little birdie gave me this one! And I'm not telling but *smoochie* to you baby, you know who you are

And then "sometimes a hard on, is just a hard on.

Since the clip said nothing to do with "slow" I went to the article.... I guess I'm slow because it said nohing about slow.

"It's closeness, safety, and trust and choosing to let yourself be vulnerable with the person you love"

Closeness, Safety, trust, the person you love???? No wonder the occurrence of masturbation is very high

Closeness, Safety, trust, the person you love???? No wonder the occurrence of masturbation is very high

hahahahahaha,
I like you Brimstone.

Ya I thought slow meant another 18 weeks till my wife gets in the zone.

Now, that is slow!

Swampy I do not want to say anything, but have you checked for a pulse.