I understand there's a crisis in the financial sector, and we can't let financial institutions go under due to poor decisions around mortgages. But when I read about legislation that will put borrowers who took out exotic mortgages on houses they couldn't afford, into more affordable loans with a reduced principle, it makes me mad. I was responsible when I got my mortgage. I did my homework, got into a fixed loan on a house I knew I could afford. Could I have done an ARM and gotten a bigger house - sure, but I was responsible and only got into what I could afford. Now, people who weren't responsible are having their mortgages reduced and their rates permanently lowered. Why isn't this available to me? If this is the plan, I say require people to pay back the reduction in principal and interest from any money they make when they sell their house. Otherwise you're just reinforcing bad behavior knowing the gov will save you if you make a stupid decision. I knew the banks were crazy when they gave my 22 yr old intermittently employed, simple-minded younger brother get a home mortgage in 2006. He was not irresponsible, just vulnerable and easily misled. Since the average citizen is not a financial genius, they assume that getting a loan means the bank thinks you can handle it. That is exactly what he said to me when I balked that he got a mortgage. Of course, foreclosure came only a year later when he was laid off. Hey thanks for the comment and the "guide." I love this tool - I think it's a great way to get conversations going about what's happening in the world. I'm definitely sorry to hear about your younger brother - foreclosure on your dream is never a good feeling Agreed the banks were definitely crazy to offer a 22 year old without a solid job history a loan. There's always someone out there willing to sell something to just about anyone. Did they use your brother's vulnerability during the sales process? I'm sure they did and while it's not right, there's plenty of sales "sharks" out there that do it. Did he "let" himself be mislead and not either spend more time getting more inform... You know, in the end, my brother was fine, but I think the bank took a loss. He lost the house and ruined his credit, but he has settled into an apartment, found a factory job, gotten married, and had a son. He is 25 now, and he is starting to be more developed. He has some form of autism or attention deficit or something. He did not finish high school until his was 21, and he went to an alternative school. He's gullible and trusting and ignorant about money. Its hard to explain but several of my family members, because they have mental illnesses, have limited grasps on the full context of things that are happening. They are easy to convince that if the bank says you can do it, they are bein... You know you bring up a great point - education about money and how to handle it/make it work for you vs. you working for it. Believe it or not, that's one of the things Donald Trump promotes about this country - we don't include teaching our kids about money in our education system. Kids aren't taught in the school system about these things and as a result, if you don't have anyone or any means to educate yourself, you can get stuck pretty quickly. I'd love to see basic accounting and money management classes included in our public school system as mandatory classes, maybe at the high school level. That way kids are at least given the basic tools to get started. Regardless though, you'r... I've made some terrible decisions with money growing up as well and unfortunately have taken some bad losses for similar reasons - getting caught up in the hype and being offered and taking solutions that aren't the best bets. I took the loses, learned from them, and moved on. I've gotten much better about educating myself, having some of that education earlier in school would have helped save me from some bad decisions. When I was in graduate school, I met people who always had professional money managers. First, for their trusts. Then, for their inheritances. I have more friends now than ever whose names are something like. A. William Johnson and S. Enid Wellington In other words, all of my friends with first initials for names know a lot of things about money from their families. I personally started by purchasing Personal Finance for Dummies, and I've tried to go from there. However, having never really been out of debt (I've spent most of my life supporting my mom and siblings), it will take time to learn anything about what to do with wealth. |
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