Speaking of commitment, Chris Crain points out that USA Today published a letter from a heterosexual woman complaining about having to be separated from her new British husband for as much as six months. That letter got a response from a gay man who told of the 17 year wait for his partner to get U.S. citizenship. After 11 years, he gave up and left the U.S (because being gay in the America can sometimes mean choosing between your country and the person you love), traveled to Hong Kong to live with his partner and spend 7years there building their life and their careers together.

But Exodus International says we don't make commitments to each other. Of course we do. And we often pay a price for doing so. But we do it anyway.