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5-31-2008 5:05 PM
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This type of fear based mentality on the side of parents and school administrators is a large part of the reason teens struggle with sexual issues. Parents don't want to talk about it...prosecute teachers who try to answer the students questions...and yet we ask "Oh my! What has happened to our youth? Where have we gone wrong?"

These parents need to be sued for utter stupidity. Don't attack a Sex-Ed teacher for trying to answer legitimate questions!

If they want to control the minds of their children...HOME SCHOOL them in a church basement somewhere and mind the shackles please, they tend to come loose with time and age.
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5-31-2008 10:39 PM
mooner-one
Well put.
5-31-2008 10:48 PM
egoldstein
I agree with you digitalsistere.
5-31-2008 10:58 PM
willhelm
I tend to agree with you on a common sense standpoint, digitalsistere. It is a fine comment you make. However, if you cannot see both sides of the argument, then you are making a case for intolerance.
6-1-2008 12:11 AM
arifsali
Man, sometime I feel I live in Saudi Arabia and not United States of America.
6-1-2008 2:05 PM
digitalsistere
<<However, if you cannot see both sides of the argument, then you are making a case for intolerance.>>

Willhelm, you are correct. We need to see both sides and I do understand how a parent might feel when their child comes home one day and, while grabbing a coke, says "Oh Mrs. LadyTeacher told us about masturbation today!" That would be a jolt for a parent who had not approached that particular subject with their child;I can appreciate the knee jerk reaction.

Where my southern blood turns to tabasco is when this group of parents goes 'Mob Crazy' and demands "Criminal Charges"!

I can just see a group of protesters all waving signs while chanting "We don't Jerk-Off! We don't Jerk-off" in ...
6-1-2008 2:42 PM
booty
DigitalSistere - Bonjour

I and some flatmates popped upon your listing about this subject at Mixx. We followed you here to comment on the subject. We are age seventeen to nineteen and what you stated from your side of the debate is tack on 100 percent. My mum stumbled onto me frigging and beserked. I am mindful and strong enough in thought to know that my body and flesh are gods gift to me and its good that I enjoy it not starve.

I am very intrigued to see where this debate goes, it's heating up at mixx and bebo as well. ~ Tani
6-1-2008 2:56 PM
Andrewtl64
Explane why is this mastubate evil?? war is evil & starve is evil and to hate evil but touching my parts, why evil? They r myne no? Please allow this bad english & forgive

Andrew
6-1-2008 2:57 PM
Andrewtl64
LOL Tani your mum seen you at this?
6-1-2008 5:23 PM
syncopath
soon any case of possible educative intention will be followed by criminal charges & penalty !!
6-1-2008 5:24 PM
agirlanddherdogs
I agree completely, Digital - for example, I grew up in a very conservative, Christian home (Southern baptist then Non-Denominational/'Spirit-Filled') and I was taught from the get-go that masturbation was evil and a sin that you could go to hell over (that was when it was even mentioned at all!) Due to some family issues (2 step-fathers & a step-brother) in my home, I learned about the 'darker side' of sex and masturbation at the very young age of 3 - after that it was like a light bulb went on and I was awakened to my own sexuality. I can remember finding myself and feeling pleasure as early as 5 (in the bathtub, no less - my mother walked in on me and went NUTS and told me how dirty and s...
6-1-2008 5:37 PM
agirlanddherdogs
....and now that I am 30 and have been in a wonderful (and completely committed) relationship for over 13 years (and we plan on having children of our own very soon), my ideas have changed and grown (thankfully!) My soul mate helped me get past my hang-ups and issues with love, patience, understanding & an uncommon strength that is hard to find these days - but I was a lucky one.

So many other millions of people go through their lives in fear, confusion, frustration, guilt and anger and never find a way out. They aren't lucky enough to connect with the few out there who are comfortable in their sexuality & can help them become comfortable with their own. And in turn, they marry someone who...
6-1-2008 5:39 PM
willhelm
Well, this is typical. We start with the issue of parental rights and end with irrelevant issue of the wonders of masturbation. This is why it is impossible to communicate with the narcissistic, intellectually trapped Left.
The"ISSUE" is never the actual issue. It always ends up being about some subjective intolerance they hold or some contrived evil they see. The bigotry would be hilarious if it were not so sad.
6-1-2008 5:44 PM
Socratoad
Who are you fingering for being "Left"?
6-1-2008 5:51 PM
agirlanddherdogs
<<This is why it is impossible to communicate with the narcissistic, intellectually trapped Left.>>

Willhelm, I completely respect your opinion, but honestly, when is an 'issue' ever really about that issue, and that issue alone? Everything is connected, one way or another. Everything leads to everything - in one big circle. Cause and Effect - plain and simple. Call it the Butterfly Effect or the Domino Effect, but what starts small gains speed and motion and soon snowballs and encompasses everything.

As far as parental rights - I completely agree that parents should have the right to decide what their children learn and are taught. Now, where I make my point is that what if a parent decid...
6-1-2008 6:00 PM
agirlanddherdogs
Are not the children holding up signs saying - "hey wait! WE asked the questions!!!"

LISTEN to our kids - they are trying to tell us something! We wonder where the youth of this world is headed and what went wrong - and they are standing here in front us trying with all their might to tell us! To ask us, to trust us to tell them the truth or confirm what they already feel inside. And when our guilt, religion, shame, fear - whatever - gets in the way, we only push them further away from us and down the same road we ourselves went.

As for this not being connected to parents' rights - how could it not be? How can you separate one from the other. Does a parent have the right to teach their chi...
6-1-2008 6:05 PM
digitalsistere
Hello Willhelm,

<<We start with the issue of parental rights and end with irrelevant issue of the wonders of masturbation.>>

We need to also remember that, just as the world is a gumbo pot full of ideas, opinions and insights...all of which are influenced by age, life experience and mindset; so is Clipmarks. Some will read the post and indulge in the intellectual aspect of parental rights while others will respond with thoughts from their personal point of view. It takes a lot of different spices to make a rich gumbo ;o) (Now I'm hungry)

Willhelm, let me ask you point blank: What is the core issue we should be discussing here? And that's not sarcasm, I am sincerely asking what you think is important in relation to this discussion?

DS
6-1-2008 6:52 PM
willhelm
digitalsistere. I basically agree with your initial comment on an intellectual level. Where I do not agree is taking the next step of being the intolerance you seem to object to.

First, fearbased mentality? That is your subjective opinion of those taking issue. There are many things I think you and I would both object to having our children indoctrinated by. So do not begrudge someone else for their view.

Second, You have no clue whether the parents objecting were the parents of the kids asking the specific questions in question. You do not know whether the parents you claim are irresponsible are the ones of the children left with these questions.

Third, you do not know the specific nat...
6-1-2008 6:53 PM
willhelm
You do not fix problems by making the problems larger.
6-1-2008 6:58 PM
willhelm
agirlanddherdogs, point taken. But we should try.
6-1-2008 7:30 PM
digitalsistere
.>>First, fearbased mentality? That is your subjective opinion of those taking issue.<<

Willhelm,
Off course it's a fear based mentality, you don't think that is self evident? What was the core motivational driver behind these parents responses? Anger? Betrayal? Name any negative emotion and it will be an extension of fear.

Anger that my child was told something I do not approve of: Is it anger or fear of what may come from your child knowing something you as a parent, do not approve of? Fear of where the knowledge made lead. If there were not a core of fear we would not see such potent reactions. These parents reacted so strongly, because they were afraid of what this could mean or do t...
6-1-2008 8:13 PM
willhelm
Of course it's a fear based mentality, you don't think that is self evident?
OK. Well at least we are the root of our difference. And in what is the fear based?
Name any negative emotion and it will be an extension of fear.
That is blantantly manipulative. But taken to it's logical conclusion I can only assume you are admitting your own fear. Negative emotions exist outside of fear. Most fear is irrational, true enough, but not unnecessary. I would not want a school to train my child to strap bombs to themselves and blow-up innocent people. Fear has nothing to do wiht that position. It is value-based. And the list goes on...

It seems to me , then, that you ...
6-1-2008 8:16 PM
willhelm
If you approached me and asked a sexual related question, within the context of let's say Sex-Ed class...then wouldn't I be failing in my role as an authority figure and teacher by 'not' answering your question, seeing that I am charged with the responsibility to teach you to the best of my ability? Is masturbation sexual? Is homosexuality sexual? Is oral sex, sexual? If so, then where better to address said subjects than Sex-Ed class?
That's really not for you to say. The school board clearly has some rules on the issue. It's called liberty and democracy. If you have an issue, then you should take it up with the board. I'm sure the teacher was aware of the rules.

Anyway, It ...
6-1-2008 8:23 PM
cptenaud
Isn`t it strange that when our children reach 18. They can join our military and learn to kill other human beings in the most horrific way. Yet I have never heard any suit brought against our military trainers.

But the same puritans who are embarrassed of their own bodies. Seem to think this is just fine. And because they are embarrassed about sexual things. They think by not saying anything about sex. It will make the subject go away. Ignorance is bliss in their world.
6-1-2008 8:31 PM
willhelm
But the same puritans who are embarrassed of their own bodies. Seem to
think this is just fine. And because they are embarrassed about sexual
things. They think by not saying anything about sex. It will make the
subject go away.
Embarrassed? Are you making a confession? I'm sorry, your comment does not compute.

Make the subject go away? What the Hell are you talking about, dude. Step out of the bigotry chamber for some fresh air.
Good grief !
6-1-2008 8:32 PM
digitalsistere
That is blantantly manipulative. But taken to it's logical conclusion I
can only assume you are admitting your own fear. Negative emotions
exist outside of fear. Most fear is irrational, true enough, but not
unnecessary. I would not want a school to train my child to strap bombs
to themselves and blow-up innocent people. Fear has nothing to do wiht
that position. It is value-based. And the list goes on...
Blantantly manipulative? How so? I am completely lost as to how you find what I said manipulative.

As far as admitting my own fear...of course I am. I have a lot of fears. Are you saying you don't?
I trust individuals, parents, and families. You trust committees, te...
6-1-2008 8:40 PM
digitalsistere
I see an issue of rights, you see an issue of sex.
Are you saying that young adults don't have a right to ask a sexually related question in Sex-ed class and also have the right to expect an answer? Even if the answer challenged their parents belief system, this would at least give a young adult a more comprehensive bundle of knowledge by which to form their OWN beliefs.

Unless you're advocating that children should not be offered any knowledge other than what their parents approve of?

Then why have sex-ed in the first place?

It seems that in this case, a right to sex education was challenged. Where do you see the separation of the two?
6-1-2008 8:51 PM
willhelm
Notice how you attempted to label me 'fascist' when I merely offered a friendly challenge to your statements? Why?
I've not done that, but you cleverly have. Bravo. I'm just attempting to find how and why we differ and suggesting how that is. You are the one drawing the earth-shattering conclusions.

you are clearly in circles here. I did not lable you a fascist. I asked if you if you were one. That is one who is a progressive and believes ultimately that the individual should by tied to the State in every regard.

Again, I am confused.
I agree. I think I have made my position on this matter crystal clear. I have even suggested how we might differ, but you ...
6-1-2008 8:52 PM
booty
I would not want a school to train my child to strap bombs
to themselves and blow-up innocent people. Fear has nothing to do wiht
that position.
What's bloody wrong you? I am close to the age group everyone is talking on and in no way was digitalsistere saying any of what you are accussing of. You know what I am watching? Willhelm getting a good brain lashing and Willhelm getting ruffled and defensive. From what I observe willy you are the only mate resorting to name calling and rude remarks. I agree with Sistere what are you scared of willy?
6-1-2008 8:58 PM
willhelm
in no way was digitalsistere saying any of what you are accussing of.
You are a bone-headed moron. Please re-read. If you can do that on your own.
6-1-2008 9:00 PM
digitalsistere
You are clearly an intolerant statist.
Ah, and the labels continue. Ok, whatever makes you feel secure. You might want to check out another clip of mine, you will like it. It's on a turkey flying into a courthouse window. Vision problems I think.

Thank you for the discussion Willhelm, I enjoyed it.
6-1-2008 9:00 PM
willhelm
See, digitalsistere, this (booty's comment) is what I mean about the education system focusing on reading, writing and math..
6-1-2008 9:03 PM
digitalsistere
You are a bone-headed moron. Please re-read. If you can do that on your own.
Umm, call me slow (Or even fascist) but if Booty didn't have a bone in her head...wouldn't she be 'Soft in the head'?

Got your insults crossed there Willhelm. ;o)
6-1-2008 9:09 PM
booty
You are a bone-headed moron. Please re-read. If you can do that on your own.
Willy, why are you the only mate on here that has resorted to name calling? You sound like a child thats had a brother make him look daft and the best you can do is call your mate a booger.
6-1-2008 9:10 PM
willhelm
I truly cannot fathom the hate and the need to read psychological issues into one's comments. It is quite a good laugh. I should try to figure out a way to charge for the therapy since these accusations are generally self revelatory.

The unhappy derive comfort from the misfortunes (or created or percievedmisfortunes) of others. It is a need.

Here is a little help for you.
6-1-2008 9:11 PM
willhelm
Above comment for digitalsistere.
6-1-2008 9:18 PM
digitalsistere
I truly cannot fathom the hate and the need to read psychological issues into one's comments. It is quite a good laugh.
Hate? Does anyone else reading this see hate in my words to Willhelm? (Other than you Willhelm) Anyone?

On a brighter note, I am thrilled to know you enjoyed a good laugh. Laughter is good for the soul. There are many more laughing with you as well. ;o)

The unhappy derive comfort from the misfortunes (or created or percievedmisfortunes) of others. It is a need.
Did you just make that up?

Anyway, I again thank you for tonights entertainment. I smell dinner and it do smell gooooood!
6-1-2008 9:23 PM
booty
I truly cannot fathom the hate and the need to read psychological issues into one's comments.
Of course you can't fathom reading anything psychological Willy, it's because you talk out of your arse.
6-1-2008 9:26 PM
willhelm
Oh, I meant to respond to this. Forgot.
Blantantly manipulative? How so? I am completely lost as to how you find what I said manipulative.
It is called a fallacy of sophistry. It is a statement that sounds good but really has no basis in study, fact, reality or evidence.

I'm sorry if I offended you. I was just drawing distinctions and making comments in the hopes we could reach further clarification. I thought I was clear on how and why we disagree, but since I am not, then perhaps you have no reason for your view other than one that you are hiding.

You should quit wasting time being offended and respond to my honest comments. It seems you are just looking for an argument.
6-1-2008 9:31 PM
willhelm
And just to restate my thoughts since this has turned into a willhelm bash. Apperanty because I think this:

digitalsistere. I
basically agree with your initial comment on an intellectual level.
Where I do not agree is taking the next step of being the intolerance
you seem to object to.

First, fearbased mentality? That is
your subjective opinion of those taking issue. There are many things I
think you and I would both object to having our children indoctrinated
by. So do not begrudge someone else for their view.

Second,
You have no clue whether the parents objecting were the parents of the
kids asking the specific questions in question. You do not know whether
the parents you claim are ...
6-1-2008 9:31 PM
willhelm
Fourth, views on masturbation are irrelevent to the discussion. This should be about the views of the nature and responsibility of educators. I suggest when educators master the abilitry of teaching children how to read, write, and subtract, then they can move on to the heady stuff.

Fifth, There is no such thing as tolerance, just different targets. The comments here prove that.

Sixth, Do you know what this particular school's or district's policy is on sex education? I don't either. Maybe there were some blatant violations. If that is the case, then perhaps some action against the teacher is warranted.

Seven, Why do you care that the State assume the role of this responsibility when it i...
6-1-2008 9:33 PM
digitalsistere
I'm sorry if I offended you.
Not to worry my fellow clipmarker, nothing you said ever offended me; that I can promise. Again I wonder why you thought I was offended? We're just talking; no harm no foul. A person can't be offended if they don't take others seriously.

Relax Willhelm, I understand.
6-1-2008 9:42 PM
willhelm
that I can promise.
Wow, I wonder why you feel the need to promise.

A person can't be offended if they don't take others seriously.
Really? Sounds like another fallacy of sophistry. I know I didn't offend you. I just thought apologizing for embarassing you would seem a bit high-handed.
6-1-2008 9:44 PM
booty
And just to restate my thoughts since this has turned into a willhelm bash. Apperanty because I think this:
I'm sure you would love to think people bash you because you think xyz willy. You are getting bashed because youre a prick. It's not hard.

And dont think for a microsecond that its not painfully clear that you had nothing sharp to say so you just pasted your entire previous post to try and claim the last word. You are so obvious with what you are willy. I wonder what little insecure remarks you will have next. Just to claim the final word.

Youre poor mum.
6-1-2008 9:47 PM
booty
I wonder why you feel the need to promise
Because promising is how you talk to a little child to make them feel secure. But youre a very little willy and have a long way to grow up before you can have big willy talks.
6-1-2008 10:53 PM
willhelm
Come on fellows we had a damn good talk going here. Lets get back on track and just ignore Will. Let that sad sack go and derail another thread. I for one loved digitalsisters ideas as well as socratoad,cptenaud and the dog lady. And booty, just some advice from another lady, you might want to change your handle if you want to be taken seriously.
Angie, what comment of mine are you referring to when you suggest I be ignored? Is your opinion based on the fact that you disagree wiht me? If so, the why do you disagree? Please point to the comments of mine you believe to be inappropriate or are you just intolerant of other's views? With what view of mine do you take issue? Thanks.
6-2-2008 5:34 AM
jmjoness
The only thing I agree with digitalsisters is the comment about parents not talking to their children about these things. I think it's sad that a parent is too shy to talk to their own child about something that could affect them for the rest of their life. It's not like they have to explain it in graphic detail with pictures to aid their imagination! Just explain to them what it is and why it's extremely dangerous to abuse. Parents should wake up and realize that if they don't tell their children, their children's own curiosity will lead them to someone else who will tell them. I personally would have preferred to have learned these things from my parents, with a proper explanation of them,...
6-2-2008 6:21 AM
jmjoness
Will:
I see an issue of rights, you see an issue of sex.
_______________________________________
Digital:
Are you saying that young adults don't have a right to ask a sexually related question in Sex-ed class and also have the right to expect an answer? Even if the answer challenged their parents belief system, this would at least give a young adult a more comprehensive bundle of knowledge by which to form their OWN beliefs.

Unless you're advocating that children should not be offered any knowledge other than what their parents approve of?

Then why have sex-ed in the first place?

It seems that in this case, a right to sex education was challenged. Where do you see the separation...
6-2-2008 6:49 AM
jmjoness
question from another adult who is not their parent. ESPECIALLY IF THAT ADULT IS THEIR TEACHER. You made it sound like they were being denied a basic human right or something. I don't think your personal opinions about sex education and over bearing parents have any room in this discussion. Another thing that completely blows my mind away is the fact that you missed the whole point of this article. She very possibly BROKE THE LAW by answering these kids' question, does that mean anything to you?? not to mention the fact that she deviated from the core curriculum, so she knew that what she was doing was wrong.

-Unless you're advocation that children should not be offered any knowledge othe...
6-2-2008 7:54 AM
jmjoness
article, which is not only was she completely out of line by teaching them something that was outside of the core curriculum, but also IT WAS AGAINST THE LAW. Also, what are you implying when you say this? They weren't denied anything, if she had stuck to the core curriculum there wouldn't have been a problem! It seems that you're implying that the curriculum put together by the schools, state and local laws is somehow inadequate. And something else is really bothering me too, what exactly do you mean by "right? What on earth are you talking about when you say "a right to sex education"? What "right"??? Are you talking about a legal right??? or are you talking about how YOU think children sh...
6-2-2008 7:55 AM
Brimstone
My God This Has Become A Mass Debate
6-2-2008 8:13 AM
skwirlinator
What ever happened to handling infractions within the staff command structure?
Smack her hand and tell her not to do it again and move on. Your kids friends are worse and where do you think you learned about those things.
Just be happy she didn't demonstrate it. Like so many other teachers all over the news.
6-2-2008 8:24 AM
jmjoness
To me it all depends on wether or not she broke the law. If she broke the law she should face the consequences. And I realize that she's not just another kid, that's really the whole point. For example, what if one of the kids asked whether or not masturbation is a good or bad thing. The answer to that is obviously extremely opinionated. The fact that she's a school teacher gives the answer to a question like that a lot of weight, especially to an impressionable youth.
6-2-2008 8:29 AM
skwirlinator
Sure, but she made a mistake - she talked to the little snowflakes.

Perhaps we should leave the teaching to the robots that are programmable. Therefore no little snowflake will ever have to think on their own again. Then mommy and daddy won't have to answer uncomfortable questions.
6-2-2008 8:44 AM
jmjoness
... you're referring to children as snowflakes... slightly disturbing. Anyway, I guess it just depends on the nature of the questions she answered and what her intentions were, which is why there's still an investigation pending. I wonder though why do you think that parents bulking at the idea of their child knowing what masturbation is means they don't want their child to think for themselves? I don't see anything wrong with setting boundaries.
6-2-2008 8:48 AM
jmjoness
oh and as far as demonstrating it, I think that might be what one of the concerns are... just my opinion though
6-2-2008 9:39 AM
digitalsistere
I think it's sad that a parent is too shy to talk to their own child
about something that could affect them for the rest of their life. It's
not like they have to explain it in graphic detail with pictures to aid
their imagination! Just explain to them what it is and why it's
extremely dangerous to abuse. Parents should wake up and realize that
if they don't tell their children, their children's own curiosity will
lead them to someone else who will tell them. I personally would have
preferred to have learned these things from my parents, with a proper
explanation of them
In my opinion this is one of the best statements any of us have made so far. I to wish that I had learned ...
6-2-2008 10:01 AM
digitalsistere
These "young adults" are barely teenagers. Some 13 and 14 year olds can
be extremely mature for their age, and others can be extremely immature
as well.
Quite true. But this does not change the fact that social and mental maturity plays anything other than a minor role in sexual awareness. Maturity is being able to use wisdom and good judgment in making decisions for yourself, not the level of awareness you have regarding your body chemistry.

For a moment, lets toss opinions aside. It's a common, easy to research fact that sexual awareness (being aware of pleasure in the genital area) begins during the first few years following birth. No, it's not as dominant in the awarene...
6-2-2008 10:10 AM
digitalsistere
... you're referring to children as snowflakes... slightly disturbing.
Wow, why is that disturbing? This is only my opinion but I think what skwirlinator was referring to was that most adults have a fairytale idea that their children are pure and untainted by the outside world and that they're so fragile as to be unable to handle anything real world.

What did you see in skwirlinator's comment that disturbed you?

Or if i'm wrong, Skwirlinator, on basically what you were suggesting, please let me know.
6-2-2008 10:21 AM
digitalsistere
I wonder though why do you think that parents bulking at the idea of
their child knowing what masturbation is means they don't want their
child to think for themselves? I don't see anything wrong with setting
boundaries.
Setting boundaries? Do you really, truly believe that because you don't want them to know about something...makes it so? Set all the boundaries you want...they will only be in your mind. Another humans body chemistry and development couldn't care less about what makes you comfortable or not. This mentality may have functioned in another century, but not this one. Not when images and songs that stimulate sexual awareness fill our daily lives.
6-2-2008 10:47 AM
papananook
I think you have it right, Digtalsistere, chilren need to be listened to and have their questions answered. If that's against the law, then the law is wrong and should be repealed.
And at the risk of name calling--don't listen to that troglodyte Willie. He just likes to see his own words in print and this is the only place he can call everybody "lefty's" and think he's smarter than the average fool. Our fellow clipper, Ratlifar (I hope it's OK to share R) showed me some very revealing things about our brother Wilhelm here:
http://redwing.hutman.net/~mreed/warriorshtm/troglodyte.htm
Look in the flame warrior roster under Troglodyte, Ferrous Cranus and Profundus Maximus.
Willie picks more nit...
6-2-2008 11:46 AM
Socratoad
Yup, I recognized Willy immediately.

6-2-2008 11:47 AM
Socratoad
Or is it Willie, or .......
6-2-2008 11:49 AM
papananook
Troglodyte Will-asleep-at-the-helm
6-2-2008 11:59 AM
willhelm
And, for the third time, what are those comments everyone has a problem with?
6-2-2008 12:04 PM
Socratoad
Willie, can you spell "obtuse"?
6-2-2008 12:12 PM
digitalsistere
And, for the third time, what are those comments everyone has a problem with?
Willhelm, can you not clearly see that the problem is not with your comments or ideas, but with your treatment of anyone disagreeing with you. If we didn't welcome differences of opinion, why in the hell would we be here? I personally have three businesses to run and national MMA competition to train for...If I didn't have a sincere interest in connecting with new people and discussing real issues I could easily be doing other things. But I make that sacrifice in order to make myself available to learn from new people...with new ideas.

Look back from the very first post on this topic...who was the f...
6-2-2008 12:25 PM
skwirlinator
Or if i'm wrong, Skwirlinator, on basically what you were suggesting, please let me know.
You actually said it better than I. Thanx - I'm not always as tactful as I need to be.
6-2-2008 12:26 PM
willhelm
Willhelm, can you not clearly see that the problem is not with your
comments or ideas, but with your treatment of anyone disagreeing with
you.
And please point out that "treatment". Other than my comment to booty, who clearly has some comprehension problems, who is really mistreating who for their disagreement? Remember, everyone up to jmjones agrees with you, as did I. And to my earlier point about the sticking to the issue. Who made the issue Me? I was making the issue clarity and I was perfectly fine to accept our differences on an intellectual level, but then you say our differences are not clear. So, there must be some underlying agenda, or perhaps even bigotry, behind y...
6-2-2008 12:34 PM
willhelm
Willhelm, can you not clearly see that the problem is not with your
comments or ideas, but with your treatment of anyone disagreeing with
you.
I only deal with comments and ideas. If you feel mis-"treated", then that is your own problem. Look at this thread... I do not feel mistreated. I'm just asking a questions and making comments. Why don't you quit feeling sorry for yourself and answer my question. What is the problem?
Why don't you quit feeling sorry for yourself
Oh, shucks, did I do it again?

6-2-2008 12:41 PM
papananook
"There is nothing more ugly than Leftists
feeling intellectually inferior"---Trog Willie,
who just doesn't get it that his ATTITUDE is the problem.
6-2-2008 12:53 PM
willhelm
Willie, can you spell "obtuse"?
I'm sorry, what was that?
Who was the first person to get defensive?
Your perception. This entire thread is about everyone, but me, getting defensive. Laugher!

Troglodyte Will-asleep-at-the-helm
Hmmm?

Yup, I recognized Willy immediately.
I know. My good looks are hard to miss.

don't listen to that troglodyte Willie. He just likes to see his own
words in print and this is the only place he can call everybody
"lefty's" and think he's smarter than the average fool.
That must mak me an above average fool. L-O-L!

This mentality may have functioned in another century, but not t...
6-2-2008 12:54 PM
willhelm
"There is nothing more ugly than Leftists
feeling intellectually inferior"---Trog Willie,
who just doesn't get it that his ATTITUDE is the problem.
Thanks, papnanook, You can't engage in reality so invent some perceived "attitude" to bash. But, yes, we know the Leftist's need to invent things.
6-2-2008 12:59 PM
willhelm
Ah, and the labels continue. Ok, whatever makes you feel secure.
Notice the dismissal of the comment? Does my personal security really matter in regard to question posed?
Willhelm getting a good brain lashing and Willhelm getting ruffled and defensive.
Hmm?

6-2-2008 1:01 PM
willhelm
Yes, as we can see. My "attitude" is the problem.
6-2-2008 1:07 PM
willhelm
Look in the flame warrior roster under Troglodyte, Ferrous Cranus and Profundus Maximus.
Willie
picks more nits than a monkey on speed in a flea circus every time he
comments, confusing the issue more than clarifying anything.
Confusing the issue? Fine comment, papnanook. I can see, now , how appropriate this comment is on this particular clip. Brilliant!
6-2-2008 1:09 PM
willhelm
OK. for all you State Fair roadie wannabes. Guess my attitude now! L-O-L!
6-2-2008 1:18 PM
digitalsistere
OK. for all you State Fair roadie wannabes. Guess my attitude now! L-O-L!
How sad
How utterly predictable
(sigh)
Well, better a little time lost than a lot. So, since I have clipmarks coming in a custom rss feed:

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If (success <> 1) Then
MsgBox rss.clipmarks.com
Exit Sub
End If

' Get the 1st channel.
Dim rssChannel As digitalsistere

Set rssChannel = rss.GetChannel(0)
If (user = willhelm ) Then
MsgBox "Sure you want to block this user?"
If (yes) then block
Exit Sub
End If
-----------------------------------------------------------

SHINK! (The sound of the e-guillotine slicing off the fat)
PLONK! SPLASH!
FLUSH!

Ahhhhhhhh
6-2-2008 1:26 PM
willhelm
You know, this is also typical. You have sensativities out of hand and when you are shown to be foolish you cannot take it anymore. So much easier to hide under a rock instead of answer questions and facing the truth. I've seen this a Clipmarks for over 2 years against various right-thinking clippers. The like-minded Left feel so set-up that they gang-up on a right-thinking clipper only because their oipinion. Many of these clippers are no longer her. Is that the goal?

Notice. You never see right thinkers amass on a clip to berate and condemn and Leftist. The fascist mentality does not exist on the Right. "Good Luck and Good Night"
6-2-2008 1:28 PM
willhelm
By the way... Me repeating everyone else's comments is the final straw?
6-2-2008 1:32 PM
willhelm
I wonder why you feel the need to announce your action. This is another thing typical of Leftists. How many comments have I seen from Leftist announcing the "DUE PUNISHMENT"?
6-2-2008 1:32 PM
Socratoad
A proud mother watching the passing parade: "Look, LOOK, everyone's out of step except my little boy Willie".
6-2-2008 1:32 PM
papananook
B'bye to the pain! Too bad you just don't get it willie--you cause pain.
6-2-2008 1:34 PM
papananook
Inna da head, Paisan.
6-2-2008 1:34 PM
willhelm
SHINK! (The sound of the e-guillotine slicing off the fat)
PLONK! SPLASH!
FLUSH!

Ahhhhhhhh
Yes, you make clear your enjoyment. But most of us on the Right already know the mentality, so you should spare your like-minded thinkers the embarrassment of this exposure. guillotines and the Left are a given.
6-2-2008 1:35 PM
willhelm
B'bye to the pain! Too bad you just don't get it willie--you cause pain.
Oh, how I know it.
6-2-2008 1:36 PM
willhelm
Like I said, there is nothing more ugly than Leftists feeling intellectually inadequate.
6-2-2008 2:22 PM
willhelm
SHINK! (The sound of the e-guillotine slicing off the fat)
PLONK! SPLASH!
FLUSH!
Ahhhhhhhh
Help me out. Is that an opinion or an attitude. Still trying to figure out my sin. Anyone?
6-2-2008 2:30 PM
willhelm
A proud mother watching the passing parade: "Look, LOOK, everyone's out of step except my little boy Willie".
What? That is profoundly amusing. I AMthe ONLY one on this clip out of step (OPINIONWISE). That is the point. Yet, you will not follow accusations wiht facts. Just more lunacy and attack.

Did you not read my 12:26 comment?
6-2-2008 3:24 PM
tanyamm
I don't know how they decide who participates in a sex ed class in the location mentioned in the clip but when my children were in school a permission slip was sent home. I had the opportinity to check over the curiculum and then decide whether it was OK. If I felt the answers given to the children was not age appropriate or the teacher was not relaying the information in an appropriate manner I could remove my children from the class. I think if a child is old enough to ask a question, they are old enough to hear the answer.
6-2-2008 3:39 PM
willhelm
. I think if a child is old enough to ask a question, they are old enough to hear the answer.
What if the answer comes from someone that believes homosexuality, premarital sex, recreational sex outside of procreation, and masturbation are all evil and abominable acts? Would you object then?
6-2-2008 3:52 PM
digitalsistere
I don't know how they decide who participates in a sex ed class in the
location mentioned in the clip but when my children were in school a
permission slip was sent home. I had the opportinity to check over the
curiculum and then decide whether it was OK. If I felt the answers
given to the children was not age appropriate or the teacher was not
relaying the information in an appropriate manner I could remove my
children from the class.
I like this concept. I feel that this is a good compromise. This gives the parents a chance to see exactly what is being taught and opens a door for them to deal with special subjects in a way that is congruent with their beliefs and family str...
6-2-2008 6:41 PM
jmjoness
Perhaps. I'm sure many would agree with you and many would disagree with you. Depends on a lot of factors. For me personally, it was a metaphor meant for a very specific context and situation; not a universal judgment. Which I obviously dropped the ball and should have clarified the context. For that, my apologies to everyone.
____________________________________________
Thank you for the apology. I would like to apologize too, I took what you said out of context. It wasn't until I read your comment a couple more times until it hit me that you probably weren't making a universal judgment on the matter.
6-2-2008 6:44 PM
willhelm
What if the answer comes from someone that believes homosexuality,
premarital sex, recreational sex outside of procreation, and
masturbation are all evil and abominable acts? Would you object then?
I take it none of you would object?
6-2-2008 6:50 PM
jmjoness
digital:
Quite true. But this does not change the fact that social and mental maturity plays anything other than a minor role in sexual awareness. Maturity is being able to use wisdom and good judgment in making decisions for yourself, not the level of awareness you have regarding your body chemistry.

For a moment, lets toss opinions aside. It's a common, easy to research fact that sexual awareness (being aware of pleasure in the genital area) begins during the first few years following birth. No, it's not as dominant in the awareness as it is when a child goes through puberty, but it is there. This is not an opinion.

Unfortunately for most, brain/body chemistry doesn't check in with the m...
6-2-2008 7:32 PM
jmjoness
These "young adults" are barely teenagers. Some 13 and 14 year olds can
be extremely mature for their age, and others can be extremely immature
as well.

I would like to point out that you took this comment completely out of context. If you put the comment back into context you will notice that I was pointing out that you kept referring to these students as young adults. We need to remember that these were not high school students, they were seventh and eighth graders. Some of the students in that class could have been as young as twelve, not to mention that these students could have had friends as young as ten. We need to keep in mind that students at this age are extremely vunerable, they ...
6-2-2008 7:34 PM
jmjoness
Which is why it makes perfect since to me why a parent who has their child's best interest at heart would want to control the information that they are receiving from a school teacher.
6-2-2008 7:40 PM
jmjoness
Sure, but she made a mistake - she talked to the little snowflakes.

Perhaps we should leave the teaching to the robots that are programmable. Therefore no little snowflake will ever have to think on their own again. Then mommy and daddy won't have to answer uncomfortable questions.


Again an apology is owed. I misunderstood what skwirl was saying. I didn't understand at the time what he meant by "snowflakes", and I didn't understand that he was referring to a parent's attitude towards their children, and not his own attitude toward children.
6-2-2008 7:58 PM
jmjoness
Setting boundaries? Do you really, truly believe that because you don't want them to know about something...makes it so? Set all the boundaries you want...they will only be in your mind. Another humans body chemistry and development couldn't care less about what makes you comfortable or not. This mentality may have functioned in another century, but not this one. Not when images and songs that stimulate sexual awareness fill our daily lives.
_____________________________________________

I want to clarify before I say this that I'm not trying to be offensive in any way, this is my opinion toward your attitude and is not meant to be taken personally. I find your way of thinking extremely dist...
6-2-2008 8:05 PM
jmjoness
Also, should parents really just throw away all the boundaries that they set for their children just because they assume that they will break them?? Of course a child's curiosity is going to move them to cross boundaries that parents set for them, their human. That's why that boundary is there! It's like a line in the sand that says "Don't step any further, you'll get hurt if you do!". If the child does step over the boundary, and get hurt, they understand why that boundary was put there, and then maybe they'll be less likely to do it again in the future. I mean think about the kind of world we would live in if we had this mentality you seem so fond of! Let's just forget about all of our law...
6-2-2008 8:19 PM
jmjoness
Another humans body chemistry and development couldn't care less about what makes you comfortable or not.
Again I may be taking what you're saying out of context, so I apoligize in advance if I am. You seem to think that there's something wrong with a parent finding the subject of sex an inappropriate, or in your words "uncomfortable", topic for their children. Yes parents do need to explain to them what these things are, and they do need to talk to their kids, but obviously parents are going to be uncomfortable with it! I would think that it's just natural for a parent to be uncomfortable about this subject. Actually I think it would be kind of creepy if a paren...
6-2-2008 8:39 PM
jmjoness
I don't know how they decide who participates in a sex ed class in the location mentioned in the clip but when my children were in school a permission slip was sent home. I had the opportinity to check over the curiculum and then decide whether it was OK. If I felt the answers given to the children was not age appropriate or the teacher was not relaying the information in an appropriate manner I could remove my children from the class.
Now this is what I'm talking about!!! A parent taking an active part in their child's life and determining what would be appropriate, and what would not be appropriate, for their child to learn. In my opinion this is what the teacher in question ...
6-2-2008 8:39 PM
digitalsistere
Thank you for the apology. I would like to apologize too, I took what
you said out of context. It wasn't until I read your comment a couple
more times until it hit me that you probably weren't making a universal
judgment on the matter.
No worries jmjoness, I admire your openness and willingness to talk without name calling. Plus, this is a touchy subject, that's obvious by the amount of views and comments. Anyone who loves children feels that natural desire to want to defend and protect them. And we have crossed into some "not so clearly defined" areas so a little heat and raised hackles is to be expected, yes?
6-2-2008 8:46 PM
jmjoness
Yes I would agree, it is a touchy subject with a lot of grey area. Our culture seems particularly inadequate when it comes to the matter of dealing with things that can't be clearly defined as black and white. It's important to be able to have an intelligent conversation without becoming violent.
6-2-2008 8:49 PM
digitalsistere
A child is playing in a playground with his sibling and mother. Child
climbs to a secluded area behind a structure and sees graffiti on the
wall. Curious, he starts reading what the graffiti says. He sees
certain sexual terms, such as 'blowjob'. Child asks the parent later
what on earth 'blowjob' means.

Are you telling me you're going to answer that question just because it was asked?!
I personally think you could answer that in a way that is truthful without being explicit. Something along the lines of 'It's something that two people do together that might be a little confusing for you right now. So you want some Pizza?"

With something like this you ...
6-2-2008 8:56 PM
jmjoness
I agree with you 100%. There's a right way you can answer the quest without lying, and without ignoring the subject all together. It would certainly be a great opportunity for a parent to open the door to communication with a child. Unfortunately that's something my parent decided not to do at the time.
6-2-2008 9:00 PM
jmjoness
I think if a child is old enough to ask a question, they are old enough to hear the answer.
I guess I was imagining this as an excuse for the teacher in question. That's probably taking what was originally said of context though
6-2-2008 9:01 PM
skwirlinator
Quite a discussion/Torrent we have here.
I don't think in terms of lefty or rightist. I really don't care.
I stand to also see the devils advocate so I can form my own opinions. Those opinions of mine are 'Centerist' and if you label them left or right it is your perception not mine.
There is never a need to apologise to me for your opinion. It is yours, if you change it thru enlightenment then it is also yours. You might hurt my feelings if you say something mean to me but I won't dwell on it because I'm used to people being spiteful. Besides, all they are is little chunks of letters put together. I am in no danger. I don't really care if you like me or not. Those are your feelings and I can't change them - only you can.
6-2-2008 9:08 PM
jmjoness
That's a good point too, I hadn't thought about that. Children do sense when their parents are hiding something, and if they don't get an answer from them their curiosity will move them to other sources of information
6-2-2008 9:14 PM
skwirlinator
I've been around kids - They ask the darndest things. If they were in a sex ed class (Which I allowed my children to take - but we discussed it at home too) then I would expect all questions asked to be answered. It is called SEX EDUCATION right?
The age of the children should not be the issue. The issue is why are such young children questioning such concepts in the first place.
article said:

by responding to questions from students about topics beyond the core curriculum, including homosexual sex, oral sex and masturbation.
Since the 'core' curriculum didn't address the concepts the children had questions about the subject that prevails in their world around them. To NOT answer...
6-2-2008 9:15 PM
jmjoness
A proud mother watching the passing parade: "Look, LOOK, everyone's out of step except my little boy Willie".
I certainly hope that the person who made this comment doesn't think an individual shouldn't have his own set of beliefs, that we should all just 'go with the flow'. I seem to recall that happening when a mad man named Adolph Hitler decided the German race was surperior and murdered six million Jews.
6-2-2008 9:25 PM
skwirlinator
That was an attack in response to an emotion about willhelm's comment stream. It was a way of expressing themselves to cause distress to willhelm that won't work because like me willhelm says what he thinks and really doesn't care what anyone else thinks. He can be brutal but thats why I like him - The world is brutal, it doesn't care about you and your little life. It has been here long before you and will be here long after you are dust.
To read some peoples responses is like watching a predictable movie. When it is all over and done with the actors go home and are completely different people. The ideals stay awhile longer but they fade away too, eventualy the film rots in a dark room for...
6-2-2008 9:28 PM
willhelm
I certainly hope that the person who made this comment doesn't think an
individual shouldn't have his own set of beliefs, that we should all
just 'go with the flow'. I seem to recall that happening when a mad man
named Adolph Hitler decided the German race was surperior and murdered
six million Jews.
For cryin' out loud, jmjoness, that is nothing new in a comment directed at me. You seem to have missed all the rest of the personal attacks. Yet, no one tells me how my being "out of step" has resulted in me issuing personal attacks that I documented toward me. Clipmarks is a haven for the tyranny of opinion. Discussion is only valid if you don't make others feel ignoran or point ...
6-2-2008 9:28 PM
jmjoness
I've been around kids - They ask the darndest things. If they were in a
sex ed class (Which I allowed my children to take - but we discussed it
at home too) then I would expect all questions asked to be answered. It
is called SEX EDUCATION right?
I keep seeing this and it seems like a very ill thought out notion to me. First of all, we don't know what the circumstances were in this particular case. We don't know what the local laws were. We don't know what the school board approved. We don't know exactly what questions were asked, and what questions were answered. It seems to me that this particular local community had decided what they believed was appr...
6-2-2008 9:33 PM
skwirlinator
we don't know what the circumstances were
Yup, you are right
She broke the law, and hopefully will be punished for it.
Ah, ya fugged that all up didn't you! LOL

Truth is - It really isn't any of our bussiness is it?
That is unless it was one of our little snowflakes and out local school district in our little fugged up community.

But we see this shit and identify with the possibility it "COULD BE" our fugged up little zygote. Then we get to spout off how we would react.

Pretty Kool Eh?
6-2-2008 9:38 PM
jmjoness
The age of the children should not be the issue.
I agree with you 100%. I would say that the ability to make wise and good decisions for oneself, which as digital said earlier is the definition of maturity, is what should be the issue. But since young children usually don't have the ability to make wise decisions for themselves, I would certainly think that the age of a child would play an importan role in the issue! I would say that it is completely dependent on the child, which is why I believe a class room setting is completely inappropriate to teach children about sex. But that is just my opinion. I believe it should be on a one on one basis between parent and child, period.
6-2-2008 9:43 PM
skwirlinator
I just care more about understanding than convincing. What I do not care about is how people view me for my views and questions.
Thats what I meant - I care about my opinions too.
I know you care or you wouldn't even try.

the age of a child would play an importan role in the issue!
My point is that 7th and 8th graders are no longer those innocent little zygotes we were. The fact that they even asked the questions amazes me. What ever happened to playing or hiking and shit like that?
Granted - I experimented with my neighbor girl's body under the porch when I was 5 but I am an advanced human. My parents were alcoholics and never around. I grew up fast and hard....
6-2-2008 9:45 PM
jmjoness
It seems to me that this particular local community had decided
what they believed was appropriate for their children, and it seems to
me that this teacher violated tha
t
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you missed this part. To reiterate, I've been saying all along that this is completely opinionated. In fact when you think about it everything is. I specifically stated that it seemed to me that this particular local community had decided (in other words wrote into law) what they believed was appropriate for their children. I seems to me that this is the case since it specifically mentions in the article that the parents are press...
6-2-2008 9:46 PM
skwirlinator
Attitudes:
In these types of settings you think you can say whatever you want. Without conviction.
When someone calls you out on your views you can fight or flight.
6-2-2008 9:47 PM
jmjoness
You are making comments that seem completely off subject to me. Maybe it's just me.
6-2-2008 9:51 PM
skwirlinator
If she didn't violate local law, and she didn't violate the school's policy, and she didn't violate the parent's expressed wishes, then she didn't do anything wrong.
She tried to TEACH
She TRIED to answer questions about the subject she was teaching.
Did she sign a contract stating she would only teach certain things? If she did and she violated that contract then she is liable for what she taught. We all know that in today's world people who think outside the box are often rewarded. Perhaps she was thinking outside the box? Who really knows but her?
You are making comments that seem completely off subject to me. Maybe it's just me.
I know, but its just me.
6-2-2008 10:02 PM
jmjoness
The world is brutal, it doesn't care about you and your little life. It has been here long before you and will be here long after you are dust.
You're right, the world is brutal. It's brutal because the people who believe it to be a horrible place make it that way because that's what they believe! They put themselves on auto pilot and never look for a way out! They've given up, and lost hope.

We are little feeble minds with delusions of grandure and noone can tell they are effected. It's all actually quite funny!
I don't see what you think is funny about all this. I find it be a serious subject matter, maybe it's just me though.

That is unless it was on...
6-2-2008 10:03 PM
jmjoness
that's what a parent should be, a guardian to protect their child's innocence.
6-2-2008 10:12 PM
jmjoness
She tried to TEACH
She TRIED to answer questions about the subject she was teaching.
Did she sign a contract stating she would only teach certain things? If she did and she violated that contract then she is liable for what she taught. We all know that in today's world people who think outside the box are often rewarded. Perhaps she was thinking outside the box? Who really knows but her?
Yes she tried to teach. Yes she answered legitimate questions being asked by the children. Yes it was part of the over all subject matter, though not part of the core curriculum. These are all the reasons why I dont agree with parents allowing complete strangers to t...
6-2-2008 10:14 PM
skwirlinator
You're right, the world is brutal. It's brutal because the people who believe it to be a horrible place make it that way because that's what they believe! They put themselves on auto pilot and never look for a way out! They've given up, and lost hope.
Yup, thats me, I had dreams once. Come live in my nightmare.
I don't see what you think is funny about all this. I find it be a serious subject matter, maybe it's just me though.
FUNNY, Its the saddest thing. Its likely the foremost destructive thing we can do to ourselves.
Maybe you should try doing your part in your community and life so that it isn't that way anymore.
I dont want to be part of the co...
6-2-2008 10:22 PM
skwirlinator
No, not reall, I don't find anything 'cool' about this.
Perhaps someone will wake up. I've tried the direct action and perfect statement - people ignore that - but if you word things just so - it pisses them off and they are forced to examine their own situations.
Well I can certainly symphathise with you there
Sympathy wont bring anything back or rewrite history. I don't desire it nor your understanding. I don't want anything because noone can give me what I really want. As for my parenting skills - read my clips - all 5000 and read my comments and read behind and between the lines. You will see that I hold my truths to be self evident. I am true to myself and ...
6-2-2008 10:26 PM
jmjoness
We are little feeble minds with delusions of grandure and noone can tell they are effected. It's all actually quite funny!
FUNNY, Its the saddest thing. Its likely the foremost destructive thing we can do to ourselves.
These two comments were both made by you. Maybe I'm an ignorant fool and utterly devoid of human reasoning, but I tend to have more faith in myself than that. You seem to be contadicting yourself here, or maybe you're retracting what you said in the first comment? It seems to me like you're saying that people are just deluding themselves by trying to improve the world around them. That a good life is 'grandure dilusion'. I guess it w...
6-2-2008 10:27 PM
skwirlinator
These are all the reasons why I dont agree with parents allowing complete strangers to teach their children something that they should be teaching them
Lets start with TV and Radio then on to church and school.
We haven't been teaching our core values for a very long time.
I don't believe one's opinion has anything to do with wether or not the teacher should be punished for what she did.
It is the 'Identify With' syndrome we have been all draw up into. We empathise with the issues at hand and try to explore those feelings of our inadequecies to our children. The what if's get us thinking.
6-2-2008 10:32 PM
jmjoness
Sympathy wont bring anything back or rewrite history. I don't desire it nor your understanding.
I am true to myself and I understand that nobody really, truly understands me.
Maybe no one can understand you because you don't desire their understanding. I don't know how you can live your life without anyone understanding you. How can you interact with anyone, even your family, if you constantly feel like an alien in your own community?
6-2-2008 10:35 PM
skwirlinator
Maybe I'm an ignorant fool and utterly devoid of human reasoning
That would be your opinion only, not mine - I don't think like that.
you have the power to choose your destiny
STOP
NO YOU DON'T.

My statements were meant to be facetious. I was trying to illicit a response and it worked. Try thinking three levels deeper, put a backwards spin on it and you will get it. Its a flaw I learned long ago- I don't believe the general public can handle the truth - clipmarks is general public.
If it hasn't met your expectations maybe you should improve it so that it will.
Work hard, be dedicated, choose the path
Guess what - been there done that. X10 You spe...
6-2-2008 10:36 PM
jmjoness
Lets start with TV and Radio then on to church and school.We haven't been teaching our core values for a very long time.
We are in perfect agreement. So, now that the problem is identified, maybe we can do whatever we can to come up with a solution to the problem? Maybe we can turn off the tv and the radio, maybe we can stop depending on churches and mad men in the pulpit to teach us our morales, and maybe we can stop expecting strangers to educate our children. We should do everything we can to improve ourselves and the world around us, don't you agree?
6-2-2008 10:39 PM
jmjoness
It is the 'Identify With' syndrome we have been all draw up into. We empathise with the issues at hand and try to explore those feelings of our inadequecies to our children. The what if's get us thinking.
I have no opinion on this comment since I don't really understand it, except to say that as far as I can tell it still has nothing to do with wether or not the parents should press charges against the teacher, and wether or not that teacher broke the law.
6-2-2008 10:40 PM
skwirlinator
Maybe no one can understand you because you don't desire their understanding. I don't know how you can live your life without anyone understanding you. How can you interact with anyone, even your family, if you constantly feel like an alien in your own community?
Planet, Time, body. I am out of place. You see I believe in love and happiness but it is all an illusion. I see reality. I look at my car and see a machine, I look at the ground and I see dirt. I've seen my babies crying in a car backseat in a rainstorm eating crackers from a gas station because we had nowhere to go. I'VE SEEN THE INDIFFERENCE IN YOUR FACES. I've helped when I had nothing to give. I've been ignored so long I don't exist.
6-2-2008 10:42 PM
skwirlinator
Maybe we can turn off the tv and the radio, maybe we can stop depending on churches and mad men in the pulpit to teach us our morales, and maybe we can stop expecting strangers to educate our children.
UM, I already have, quite some time ago.
6-2-2008 10:46 PM
jmjoness
Attitudes:
In these types of settings you think you can say whatever youw ant. Without conviction. When someone calls you out on your views you can fight or flight.
sorry i know this was made a while ago but i thought I would comment. Maybe instead of becoming violent and cruel every time someone question's our opinions, we could evaluate what people are saying, use our intellect to the best of our abilities to determine it's value, and then tell the person what your re evaluated opinion is. That way people can actually have a conversation without blowing each other's heads off.
6-2-2008 10:47 PM
skwirlinator
wether or not the parents should press charges against the teacher, and wether or not that teacher broke the law.
It seems to me you are caught up in the very thing the media wants you to be caught up with. Other people.

This clip is not interesting because of what it says but for what it implies. The issue is whether we as parents can trust our schools to educate our babies so they grow up to believe like we do. This is a deepset fear of many people. This is about a teacher acting upon her own judgement at the spur of the moment to keep a class interesting.
Who cares what happens - besides those directly involved. What about our own little snowflakes(From FARK.COM)?
6-2-2008 10:48 PM
jmjoness
Planet, Time, body. I am out of place. You see I believe in love and happiness but it is all an illusion. I see reality. I look at my car and see a machine, I look at the ground and I see dirt. I've seen my babies crying in a car backseat in a rainstorm eating crackers from a gas station because we had nowhere to go. I'VE SEEN THE INDIFFERENCE IN YOUR FACES. I've helped when I had nothing to give. I've been ignored so long I don't exist.
What does what other people do have anything to do with how you live your life? Should we just all be miserable depressed and lonely just because of what other people are doing? I disagree, I want to live my life the best way possible regardless of other people's actions.
6-2-2008 10:50 PM
skwirlinator
sorry i know this was made a while ago but i thought I would comment. Maybe instead of becoming violent and cruel every time someone question's our opinions, we could evaluate what people are saying, use our intellect to the best of our abilities to determine it's value, and then tell the person what your re evaluated opinion is. That way people can actually have a conversation without blowing each other's heads off.
The comment that you quoted was spurred by the attacks on willhelm. He doesn't NEED my defence - he can stand on his own. I just get sick of all the bashing too. BTW, I tend to agree with you in case you are not too sure.
6-2-2008 10:52 PM
jmjoness
The comment that you quoted was spurred by the attacks on willhelm. He doesn't NEED my
defence - he can stand on his own. I just get sick of all the bashing
too. BTW, I tend to agree with you in case you are not too sure.
sorry i didn't realize, I see what you mean now.
6-2-2008 10:54 PM
skwirlinator
I would never try to tell you how to live or think. There is nothing wrong with being content. I am not. You are. GREAT. I don't want you to think I am complaining, I am not. I just want you to know I don't have a life you can relate to. Its nothing wrong or anything, You just can't know, you are not me.
I see what you mean now.
I can be kinda confusing if you don't know me. People that know me - Love me.
6-2-2008 11:01 PM
skwirlinator
Willhelm thinks 5 levels above most people. He is abrupt and precise with his questions. His faults are in his compassion for other peoples shortcomings. He needs to learn patience and tact. I enjoy his comments because more often than not he makes you think hard about what you say. He tests your confidence in your own opinions and often in your own words. Most of the time others get ugly with him FIRST.
Three things you can do to have a great debate with him are
1 - choose your words carefully
2 - Debate the subject and the questions not the attitude
3 - Be prepared to agree to disagree when there is an impasse
6-2-2008 11:03 PM
jmjoness
This is about a teacher acting upon her own judgement at the spur of the moment to keep a class interesting.
Who cares what happens - besides those directly involved
To explain why I think I would care about what happens in a class room I would like to pull a comment that I made earlier to digital.

Some of the students in that class could have been as young as twelve, not to mention that these students could have had friends as young as ten. We need to keep in mind that students at this age are extremely vunerable, they are making their first transitions into adulthood. Changes are happening physically, emotionally, socially, and spiritually. Events tha[b]...
6-2-2008 11:05 PM
skwirlinator
This clip is digitalsistere's clip.
This is what this clip is about
This type of fear based mentality on the side of parents and school administrators is a large part of the reason teens struggle with sexual issues. Parents don't want to talk about it...prosecute teachers who try to answer the students questions...and yet we ask "Oh my! What has happened to our youth? Where have we gone wrong?"

These parents need to be sued for utter stupidity. Don't attack a Sex-Ed teacher for trying to answer legitimate questions!

If they want to control the minds of their children...HOME SCHOOL them in a church basement somewhere and mind the shackles please, they tend to come loose with time and age.
6-2-2008 11:08 PM
skwirlinator
yet we ask "Oh my! What has happened to our youth? Where have we gone wrong?"
So we tend to point fingers and shout out to the crowds. The news picks this up and propogates it. It sells headlines brings in money.

Did I do enough for my children so they can survive in this world - Damn, I hope so.
6-2-2008 11:11 PM
skwirlinator
Do my children value the the virtues I tried to teach them - Damn, I hope so!
Are my virtues worthy of the community in which I live - Far Beyond!
Do I cry for the faceless children that cry out in the night - Every night!
6-2-2008 11:17 PM
jmjoness
The difference between us i think is that you are looking at it based on an opinion, and based on emotion. I'm looking at it from the stand point of whether or not she broke the law. The teacher was an authority figure. Authority figures are held to a high standard, and should be. Why do you think politicians are the only ones who get fired for cheating on their wives? If the school and the local community made rules and laws to guide the sex ed class for the protection of the students, it was her duty to abide by those rules and laws. They are there for a reason. In fact, it's probably rules like these that keep teachers from demonstrating it in the class room, as you aptly put it earlier. ...
6-2-2008 11:22 PM
jmjoness
Well i think i'm going to log off now. I've enjoyed our conversation, have a good night. (if it is night where u live oO0
6-2-2008 11:23 PM
skwirlinator
Should we label her as a sex - offender?
Try reading Fark.com, They kinda bring out the issues like these and run with them.
You will see teacher-student sex on the increase just about every day. And we are talking about women on boy, woman on girl, men on boy and men on girl sex, drugs and alcohol - Mostly 14 and 15 year olds.
Its already rampant in our society. This teacher needs a slap on the hand and a councelling session on protocol in the classroom at the most.
6-2-2008 11:25 PM
skwirlinator
[quote="Fark search on "TEACHER""]Wed September 12, 2007: Main (score 1.7366)
(BBC) Sick Let me see if I got this right: Hot teacher/young boy is okay. Hot teacher/young girl is rare, but okay. Male teacher/young girl not okay. But where do we stand on male teacher/young boy again? (107)
Thu January 31, 2008: Main (score 1.7366)
(Examiner) Hero Not news: Another teacher has sex with a student News: After student teacher sex teacher drops student off in front of house Fark: Mother chases teacher in car until he crashes (tag is for Mom) (118)
Thu April 03, 2008: Main (score 1.5040)
(Some Guy) Interesting Six-year-old in trouble for saying his teacher is a "hottie," asking if teachers s...
6-2-2008 11:27 PM
skwirlinator
Thu November 15, 2007: Main (score 1.5040)
(WXII12.com) Scary Teacher lives out every other teacher's fantasy; slams the door in the face of one of his students which sparks a fistfight between the two. Bonus: The teacher taught a conflict resolution class (99)
Wed February 27, 2008: Main (score 1.2280)
(CBS New York) Amusing Girl ignites her science teacher's ponytail, gets herself charged criminally and expelled. Now we can turn our focus to what's really important -- the science teacher was a GUY (248)
Wed February 27, 2008: Main (score 1.2280)
(Kansas.com) Dumbass Today's teacher on student sex brought to you by Buhler, Kansas. Bonus: she's a foreign exchange student. Doub...
6-2-2008 11:28 PM
skwirlinator
Thu April 24, 2008: Main (score 1.2280)
(International Herald Tribune) Sad Teachers strike closes British schools as teachers protest over pay, economy, lack of hot students (42)
Mon April 28, 2008: Main (score 1.2280)
(ABC Action News) Florida In an unprecedented move, a Florida teacher has completed her own teacher/student sex trifecta in less than a month (219)
Wed April 25, 2001: Main (score 1.2280)
(Detroit Free Press) Obvious Students rally for teacher, takes them to Hooters, teacher gets fired. (27)
Wed January 30, 2002: Main (score 1.2280)
(The Scotsman) Obvious Teacher in UK sex scandel says back home in Canada, it's common for students to go to teachers' houses fo...
6-2-2008 11:30 PM
skwirlinator
6-2-2008 11:31 PM
skwirlinator
My point is that teachers all over are doing a lot worse than answering kids questions
6-3-2008 1:18 AM
jmjoness
Yes and my point is that maybe these parents don't want their kid to be the next headline on "fark.com". Maybe they don't want to let it get that far before anybody actually takes action to stop these pervs from hurting kids.
11-16-2008 12:59 PM
commentqueen
Man, what a bunch of idiots, these parents are. Yeah, just keep the kids in the dark or worst yet, let them (the kids) perpetuate their own myths ( you can't get pregnant standing up or if you wash a condom and use it again). This Christian right bull worked great for Palin didn't it?
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