Are dads valued as good parents in society?


	Are dads valued as good parents in society?

ronhuxley

11-4-2009 12:29 AM

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ronhuxley says:

As this article illustrates, I think the answer is usually no. Most dads differ to moms when it comes to parenting or they resort to authoritarian ideas of disciplinary roles. This has changes, fortunately, over the years and more fathers are taking a shared role in parenting. What else can we do to help dads get involved? How can parenting experts encourage dads to come to parenting classes? Share your thoughts or tweet us a reply!

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