 aklimento says: When I get divorce, and married again, and would be not happy, regardless of titanic efforts, may be it would be worth to consider to give it a try...  Oh, no, I'd better divorce again. Family is sacred. When you have no commitment, you are free to do any experiment according your standards and values. Of course it's important but I think that even more than that it is a blessing and unfortunately, it's a blessing that not everyone has. I try not to judge other peoples lives because I don't know their lives. I only know my life. My standards and values only work for me and even though they may be very similar to other people's, they are as unique to me as I am to everyone else. No two people are the same and no two lives are the same. To impose one's own standards and values onto someone else is unfair because those values come from our own lives, our own experiences, not theirs. I think that it's difficult to respect differences in other people because we don't see them through their eyes... This was an interesting clip Aklimento. I can really see some people being very judgmental of these people's personal lives, but life can be complicated and it's real easy for other's to want simple answers to complex situations. Notice most of the women he met wanted emotional intimacy. It's interesting; I'm not sure what he was looking for. This is what I have learned in my life. This is what works for me. It is my truth. I don't expect it to be yours.So wise observation, chestnut501. If your principle useful and correct, why it wouldn't be an example for others? To find out real life values much easy in open discussion between good friends. We are all truth seekers and craving for kind word and timely advice. ; I'm not sure what he was looking for.He said it was an experiment, Debby. So pleasant subject for research! Sure this is complex every day routine situation and how often folks in disarray: what to do? May be this unusual article and comments at source and here will to clear fog? P.S. You are, as always, hot and sexy... Hey, "what about me" ain't I hot and sexy too?? People with brains need to know that they have appeal too. We can be just as insecure as the next person. You asked in doodles clip what I know about you that you don't know. Check the refills on your viagra. You need to get a new prescription soon. JUST KIDDING (mostly)  Now in all seriousness, aklimento, I really think you are one of the nicest guys on CM. I think of you as a friend here and I'm always happy to see you. In fact it's people like you that makes me keep coming back.  Thanks, sweetie, for kind words. The same with you and all our community, I'm simply attached here and feel myself so comfortable, even with our political opponents. Sure, here are nice interface and wise heads, but such friendly environment is creating by real people, coming here and contributing even with 2 cents. I wish I would do more, but I am what I am. That P.S. related to you also, as well as to whole our beautiful half; we are nothing without you all. Who else will inspire and excite us, savage men? Only acting together we will be able to make our world at least a little bit better and kinder, less cruel and violent. With such approach do we need viagra or any other similar BS of f... Alklimento, Did you know that Ashley Madison was started by a man? It's interesting how he marketed the concept and named it as such. Debby, hunny, please, don't type my nickname, save your precious time and hot, gracious fingers. Call me Alex, or AK, as TN do. Conceptual idea of this online business based on the reality of our routine life: regardless of morality, cheating was and will exist in our society, it cannot be eliminated completely as any other our sins as well. Sure it is bad, and hurtful, especially for kids and family life, but... This is not mortal sin, after all, isn't it? Bells? Definitely! And those, who didn't hear them in time, paying his/her price for recklessness, sometimes even in the end of his life. Like for all rest of our sins... AK, I just thought the marketing was particularly interesting. The site's founder chose the Ashley Madison name by simply selecting two of the most popular girls names. That's how working idea find its realization. You choose what people really need, concoct useful tool for it and... voila! The question only in purposefulness of such idea. Doesn't it wake up dark sides of our characters? Doesn't it provide fertile ground for real crimes? Fraudsters and scambags, who always lurking around, wouldn't hesitate to pocket on someone's weakness. What if a jealous spouse decide to defend his/her dignity? Not accidentally separate laws and proceedings created for family matters - that is serious business. There are legitimate matchmaking sites in Internet, but for singles, and singles only. Spouses are prohibited participate there. Not quite accidentally, isn't it, Debby? Who is a single in your opinion? One, who is not married? I hope not! Marriage is an evil tradition, that brings a lot of tears, hopelessness, lost self-determination and freedom and despair and in times of low income is it often the worst kind of prostitution. Even if both want to divorce, it often fails by lack of money to pay for this official act. In case of existing ownership or children - money for an attorney must also be available. So they live in one flat together for years and they increase rejection and finally hate. In my opinion is an official seal a kind of a form of coercion, which kills the love finally. If I am loving somebody and decide to spend live together, I'm free to... |
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