. It seems truly an age of almost perfect contentment, a brave new world of persistent good fortune, joy without trouble, felicity with no penalty. Why are most Americans so utterly willing to have an essential part of their hearts sliced away and discarded like so much waste? What are we to make of this American obsession with happiness, an obsession that could well lead to a sudden extinction of the creative impulse, that could result in an extermination as horrible as those foreshadowed by global warming and environmental crisis and nuclear proliferation? What drives this rage for complacency, this desperate contentment? Surely all this happiness can't be for real. How can so many peopl... grow out of my suspicion that the predominant form of American happiness breeds blandness. This kind of happiness appears to disregard the value of sadness. This brand of supposed joy, moreover, seems to foster an ignorance of life's enduring and vital polarity between agony and ecstasy, dejection and ebullience. Trying to forget sadness and its integral place in the great rhythm of the cosmos, this sort of happiness insinuates that the blues are an aberrant state that should be cursed as weakness of will or removed with the help of a little pink pill. I'm not questioning joy in general. For instance, I'm not challenging that unbearable exuberance that suddenly emerges from long suffering. ... Depression (as I see it, at least) causes apathy in the face of this unease, lethargy approaching total paralysis, an inability to feel much of anything one way or another. In contrast, melancholia generates a deep feeling in regard to this same anxiety, a turbulence of heart that results in an active questioning of the status quo, a perpetual longing to create new ways of being and seeing. Our culture seems to confuse these two and thus treats melancholia as an aberrant state, a vile threat to our pervasive notions of happiness — happiness as immediate gratification, happiness as superficial comfort, happiness as static contentment. Of course the question immediately arises: Who wouldn't q... I don't have the words to say how important this is. How central and crucial to REAL life this is. Economy. Greed. New "frontiers". Sex. Drugs. More high-flying stocks. Another slam of cocaine. Then the roadrunner runs off the cliff. Freexes in mid-air. Turns to look at you in shock. And.........Then........... / / / / "O" "Freezes" The opposites exist to confirm each other. We cannot insist that only the ecstasy and pleasure side is "good". The sad, down times are good as well. Times of going without are Good. We've been led to believe that we must ignore and deny the downside. Repress it. Thereby resulting in the dis-ease of depression. Great thoughts. Important thoughts. Great words. I think this is one of your best clips. Μελαγχολία(Melancholia) is one of my favorite words in the greek language.And I couldn't agree more with you. Depression kills creativity - no one is less creative than the clinically depressed. Is melancholy different from depression, and supports creativity instead of destroying it? I don't know, but there is no lack of either one - people say they are unhappy far more than they did 50 years ago. This has been my temperament my entire life. My glass is always, almost, empty. If there's a down-side to anything, I will see it first. It's awful. It makes it very difficult to enjoy the good things that life offers...but I'm working on it. Too deep for me to consider whether melancholy and depression are the same. They probably are related. My guess is that depression can become a result of being so 'down' about everything. I know my Dr. has been trying for years to put me on medication...and I've been tempted. But no one would recognize me. The sadness of life has always outweighed any of it's joys. The is no virtue in melancholia. I suffer from severe depression, have been helped some by medication, and mostly by people. I have learned to live with depression, I'm very lucky there - to be able to include it in who I am rather than define who I am. I see melancholy as different, for me a constant background sadness, maybe that despite all the good and beautiful things in the world and in my life, something is missing. It is the solitary contemplating of this that has made me more sure than ever of the spirit, and, strangely, of love. No, it doesn't feel good, so often I don't feel a part of the happiness around me. Yet in the deepest way, there is a gift in it I feel so blessed to experience. Now that you put it that way, I can say that I am very sympathetic towards others. Almost to where I get in there and live their pain with them vicariously. In one sense that is good; but in another, it's bad because you are carrying the burdens of someone else. Things that you/me were not intended to carry. I think it can make you a deep thinker. You seriously ponder the issues of life. And yes, while all around you may be happy, it's almost like you're on the outside looking in and wondering what it would be like to be that blissful. I'll think more about this. (There...got to go ponder...:~) The point here is that natural melancholia is what allows one to know the glass half full. If always seeing the empty, then that may be the more serious depression, resulting often from the insistence that we are supposed to know ONLY an always full glass. There are always opposites. Denying one of ANY pair - white/black, happy/sad, with/without, off/on, boom/recession - results in an imbalance of the spirit. |
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