The art of listening


	The art of listening

Aribeth

1-9-2008 3:03 PM

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1-9-2008 3:37 PM

Aribeth

thx alan.I believe that too

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<div style="margin: 12px 0px; font-family: arial; color: #333333; background: #ffffff; border: solid 4px #e5e5e5; width: 100%; clear: left;"><div class="CM_CTB_Content_Wrap" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;background-color:#e5e5e5;"><div style="border-bottom: solid 1px #dcdcdc; white-space: nowrap; margin-bottom: 8px; background-color: #eeeeee ;background-image: url(http://clipmarks.com/images/source-bg.gif); background-repeat: repeat-x; height: 24px; line-height: 24px; vertical-align: middle; padding-bottom: 4px; color: #666666; font-size: 10px;" ><a href="http://clipmarks.com/clip-to-blog/" title="see clips that are hot right now"><img src="http://content.clipmarks.com/blog_embed/647056d5-71c3-4719-a831-201a15445a9e/448CC7E0-D547-4968-931F-66389C1D6A9F/" alt="" width="19" height="19" border="0" style="vertical-align: middle; margin: 0px 4px; display: inline; border: none; float:none;" /></a>clipped from <a title="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening" href="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening" style="font-size: 11px;">www.creatingstrategies.com</a></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening"><H1>The Art of Listening</H1></blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Exercise active listening skills.   Try asking more questions.</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Become aware of your personal filters and triggers.   Each of us is a product of our upbringing, culture, life experiences and anything and everything that makes us unique as human beings.  Our uniqueness can sometimes be an obstacle to being an effective listener.  As you listen, try to remain open to what you are hearing and withhold evaluation or judgment.  Become aware of what your triggers are in the communication process and what shuts your listening down.</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Observe your own and other people's listening habits.</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Listen without formulating a response to the speaker.    As listeners we think about 500 words per minute while the normal speaking rate is about 125 to 150 words per minute.   That creates a lot of room for communication to break down or for your mind to wander!</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Listen with empathy.  </blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Become aware of the speaker's non-verbal communication.</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.creatingstrategies.com/articles/communication_tips/the_art_of_listening">Create an environment for the listening to occur.  Remove distractions.</blockquote></div><div style="margin: 0px 6px 6px 4px;"><table style="font-size: 11px;border-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%"><tr><td style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;">&nbsp;</td><td align="right" style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;width:107px" width="107"><a href="http://clipmarks.com/share/448CC7E0-D547-4968-931F-66389C1D6A9F/blog/" title="blog or email this clip"><img src="http://content9.clipmarks.com/images/c2b-foot.png" border="0" alt="blog it" width="107" height="17" style="border-width:0px;padding:0px;margin:0px;" /></a></td></tr></table></div></div>

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