How to Punish your Child Effectively


	How to Punish your Child Effectively

skwirlinator

12-17-2007 11:27 PM

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12-18-2007 1:41 PM

BitDrifter

A stinging swat on the ass is fairly effective, although it should only be used when the alternatives have failed.

12-18-2007 1:41 PM

BitDrifter

And never in anger.

12-18-2007 1:44 PM

skwirlinator

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