Singlism and Matrimania


	Singlism and Matrimania

Deepti

5-29-2008 7:33 AM

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discrimination, singles, marriage, people, society, couples

Deepti says:

I've noticed this, but wasn't aware there was a name to it.....interesting article; the author points out a few instances too

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5-29-2008 2:30 PM

meancookie89

Sooo True but then again marriages isn't for everyone!
Cuz some of ya look miserable!

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