孔子说的关系种种

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	孔子说的关系种种

charcoal

5-17-2007 10:24 PM

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china, confucianism, relationships, friendship

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Wisdom is to love learning; kindness is to do good, bravery is to know shame; Confucianism encourages us to learn (be modest), to do good and to be brave.

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以前曾看到一种说法，看一个人怎么样，看看他的朋友就知道了。如果他交游天下，朋友中三教九流的角色都有，那么这个人就不容小觑。至少他的人品吸引了那么多背景各异的人。在古时，那就是孟尝君、信陵君之类的角色。君王而畏其三分。也是三国演义中刘备这样的角色，前期有关张效力，后期有赵云等少将拼命，一生得诸葛亮挖心掏肺。在国外，那就是教父。</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://www.mindmeters.com/showlog.asp?log_id=5416">父子有亲，君臣有义，夫妻有别，长幼有序，朋友有信。他所归纳的这些关系直到今天都还是正确的，君臣其实是指掌握权力的人与未掌握权力的人之间如何处理关系。说到义字，在古代的各类小说里面，有很多臣子宁死不背自己的国王，有时这种节气反而会获得敌方的鉴赏和宽恕，而那些被主求荣的人在没有利用价值后往往毙命，这就是“道达于天下”。
孔子说应该如何使各种关系都能恰当处理呢？好学近乎知，力行近乎仁，知耻近乎勇。热爱学习就接近智慧了，努力行善就接近仁爱了，知道羞耻就接近勇敢了。智慧、仁爱、勇敢，这三点就是秘诀。但是做到绝对不容易。想起我们的八荣八耻，不就教了个“勇“吗？“仁者必然勇，勇者未必仁。“</blockquote></div><div style="margin: 0px 6px 6px 4px;"><table style="font-size: 11px;border-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%"><tr><td style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;">&nbsp;</td><td align="right" style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;width:107px" width="107"><a href="http://clipmarks.com/share/09C5A880-D0EC-4DF3-9491-9E98F5177906/blog/" title="blog or email this clip"><img src="http://content6.clipmarks.com/images/c2b-foot.png" border="0" alt="blog it" width="107" height="17" style="border-width:0px;padding:0px;margin:0px;" /></a></td></tr></table></div></div>

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