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5-7 minutes? Not worth doing my hair and make-up for.

The problem is, too often animal instinct gets the better of our more highly evolved brain, and we sell-out for sex.

What a cop-out.

When thy cup of lust spilleth over, how does one resist the urge to drain it?

Thou can't. Thou can choose to swallow or spit it out.

3-3-2008 7:08 PM

mooner-one

There's a book called "The Seven Minutes". Read it a long time ago so's I can't remember the author, but it was pretty good. Check it out.

3-3-2008 10:15 PM

5-7 minutes? Not worth doing my hair and make-up for.

Now that's funny TN! And I'm gonna pass on that swallowing or spitting out thingy you said.

@Michellezm, *sigh* sometimes maybe your friend might be right. And that word is called masturbation hunny. It will NOT make you go blind, but I do believe it was a major force in my need for reading glasses.

The only 7 minutes i've been into heaven was my near death experience.

3-4-2008 3:02 AM

I'm absolutely convinced that another's hand is better than mine for a handjob! So I agree with

I have a friend who claims that self-sex (I dare not say the "M"-word?) is a way of meeting a better class of person.

Tickling is great fun but have you ever heard of anyone self-tickling? So why not?

I'm reasonably sure that my claim only applies to a male handjob. One female on another may be closer to self masturbation for the female enjoyment?

Given my life again there is one criteria that I'd apply second time around. If a female could not get herself off then I'd pass by, quickly. Nothing worse on earth than a sexually frustrated female who declines her own or another's ...

3-4-2008 6:44 AM

One female on another may be closer to self masturbation for the female enjoyment?

Are you asking me Righty?? *LOL*

3-4-2008 9:39 AM

Debbyski, you have been more than frank about certain matters recently and I'm certainly appreciative of this frankness. You're my first bi-friend, ever, well that I know of. You may be on 'tilt' right now so I wouldn't want you to answer more than would be wise. You could give me your opinion without having to disclosing personal experience.

With the male handjob there comes a point where your hand is conflicted between stopping and continuing. Just at the best point! With another's hand that conflict is resolved by 'go on'.. Any experienced handjob giver will understand this and explains why personal handjobs are second rate in comparison. Actually third hand as against a duel hand qualit...

3-4-2008 10:00 AM

duel hand quality handjob

"When you're manually stimulating a man, try a technique I call Ode to Brian. It may sound complicated at first, but when you get into the rhythm of it, your movements will just flow. Do the following steps, alternating hands: Make a U-shape with your fingers and thumb at the bottom of his shaft and your palm facing away from you. Stroke up, and when you reach the head, twist over the top with as much of your palm in contact with the head of the penis as possible and come down the other side. Then do the same with your other hand and keep on alternating hands — for as long as he can last!"
—Lou Paget

"Another fabulous hand-job technique is one I cal...

3-4-2008 10:05 AM

Should read...moving your threaded fingers over, of course. I''m multi-tasking.

3-4-2008 10:31 AM

Gee, this is too hot. I see a blue ball day coming on. Nobody mentions this as it would put vaginas out of business.

Seriously, unplanned pregnancy would drop dramatically if lesson on these methods were demonstrated.

But you're not telling me about what I want to know.

Sure. you'll display and discuss our bits but mums the word about your bits and pleasures.

3-4-2008 11:00 AM

The question was for debs, wasn't it?

conflicted between stopping and continuing

Anyway, if I may give my two cent anyway. I think it may be because just when it gets to that very best bit, right on the top of the orgasm curve, (is that what it's called?) then in your mind you think, do you want to try and make that ultimate feeling last just... that...little...bit longer, (so you unconsciously slow down) OR have you have reached the point of no return were it's just yeehaw and full speed ahead!!... so to speak.

3-4-2008 11:19 AM

"Sex School - Inspiration For Your Sexlife."

if lesson on these methods were demonstrated.

Hahaha! There ARE lessons. I saw how to do it on TV.

3-4-2008 11:22 AM

Prime time European TV, baby. Gotta love it.

3-4-2008 11:23 AM

No. Not about delaying the onset. You've reached the big O. It's whither you can prolong it further from then. A different hand can, easier.

Now that in a female context? So far I know what you know about males. What you never can be sure about what your female partner tells you, believing their telling you what you want to hear and not necessary the full truth.

3-4-2008 11:29 AM

?? I don't think I understand the question then.

3-4-2008 11:48 AM

Wowo! My boss let me go home early from work! YAY for my boss!
Righty, sugar, if I wasn't on "tilt" before reading all these comments I surely am now!

Only your mind knows the difference.

And that darlin' is what makes the world go around.

So, I thought just like TN did that you didn't reach climax yet in your question. Are we prolonging the next climax? I try to not think too hard about technique Righty. My bad. Anyway, my answer would have to be it would depend on whose hand it was. I love a beautiful mind

3-4-2008 2:13 PM

?? I don't think I understand the question then.

When really good there is an element of the agony and the eustacy at the big O. It's that that makes another hand better by prolonging the eustacy. My mention of tickling is deliberate and I believe accurate.

So it's about the duration and intensity of the big O for the male. Other factor influence this also. I suspect a circumcised penis is less intense too. I've only got the one so don't know.

Now that in a female context? So far I know what you know about males. What you never can be sure about is what your female partner tells you, and believing their telling you what you want to hear but not necessary the ...
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3-4-2008 2:29 PM

Righty, sugar, if I wasn't on "tilt" before reading all these comments I surely am now!

No it wasn't here on this clip that I was referring to. Previously you were attacked on personal items. I love your honesty but fear that another personal attack might hurt while your hubby isn't well. Am I making any sense?

3-4-2008 2:35 PM

Everybody's different. How our senses interpret any stimulus is subjective. It can be pretty intense depending more on circumstances IMO as opposed to any methodology. Women have quite different sexual desires and different sexual aims than men. We fall in love first then lust later, vice versa for men.

3-4-2008 2:38 PM