<div style="margin: 12px 0px; font-family: arial; color: #333333; background: #ffffff; border: solid 4px #e5e5e5; width: 100%; clear: left;"><div class="CM_CTB_Content_Wrap" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;background-color: #ffffff;"><div style="border-bottom: solid 1px #dcdcdc; white-space: nowrap; margin-bottom: 8px; background-color: #eeeeee ;background-image: url(http://clipmarks.com/images/source-bg.gif); background-repeat: repeat-x; height: 24px; line-height: 24px; vertical-align: middle; padding-bottom: 4px; color: #666666; font-size: 10px;" ><a href="http://clipmarks.com/clip-to-blog/" title="see clips that are hot right now"><img src="http://content.clipmarks.com/blog_embed/ebf18be8-cb63-499d-b28c-775505d2ae1f/07DA8CD1-FACF-4CE7-BD49-F22732379687/" alt="" width="19" height="19" border="0" style="vertical-align: middle; margin: 0px 4px; display: inline; border: none; float:none;" /></a>clipped from <a title="http://heartless-bitches.com/bi/bitchitorial10Jul06.shtml" href="http://heartless-bitches.com/bi/bitchitorial10Jul06.shtml" style="font-size: 11px;">heartless-bitches.com</a></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://heartless-bitches.com/bi/bitchitorial10Jul06.shtml"> The danger here is that when people believe they are <I>entitled</I> to something - like they are <I>owed</I> something for the efforts they put in, and they don't get it, they inevitably see themselves as <I>victims</I>. And as Cynthia Heimel said, "There is nothing more dangerous than someone who thinks of himself as a victim. Victims feel it's within their rights to fuck over everyone.</blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://heartless-bitches.com/bi/bitchitorial10Jul06.shtml">Aren't we told that our feelings are valid no matter what? I mean, nobody has a right to tell you how you should and shouldn't feel, right? </blockquote><div style="height: 2px; font-size: 2px; background: #dcdcdc; border-bottom: solid 1px #f5f5f5; margin: 2px 4px;"></div><blockquote style="text-align: left; padding: 0px 8px; margin: 4px 0px 8px 0px; background: transparent; border: none;" cite="http://heartless-bitches.com/bi/bitchitorial10Jul06.shtml">But entitlement isn't a feeling - it's a chosen reaction to a feeling - it's a belief, a judgment, and often an inappropriate one at that. Anger, hurt, sadness, grief - <I>those</I> are feelings. And while you have every right to <I>have</I> and experience those very legitimate feelings, you <I>don't</I> have an inalienable right to express them any way <I>you</I> want, anywhere <I>you</I> want. </blockquote></div><div style="margin: 0px 6px 6px 4px;"><table style="font-size: 11px;border-spacing: 0px;padding: 0px;" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" width="100%"><tr><td style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;">&nbsp;</td><td align="right" style="background:transparent;border-width:0px;padding:0px;width:107px" width="107"><a href="http://clipmarks.com/share/07DA8CD1-FACF-4CE7-BD49-F22732379687/blog/" title="blog or email this clip"><img src="http://content7.clipmarks.com/images/c2b-foot.png" border="0" alt="blog it" width="107" height="17" style="border-width:0px;padding:0px;margin:0px;" /></a></td></tr></table></div></div>

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